The Bogeyman

Goodmorning/evening Life Charmers!

Today's post is a little darker and sadder than my usual posts. I try to emit positivity and vibrance, but sometimes I get down and don't feel too positive. ha Well, recently I had one of those days, and the thought of writing blog post about it came to me. So, I promised myself that I would. And here I am doing so. Sooo, without further ado, let's begin.

The Bogeyman is a character/creature that we associate with nightmares and terror. It is a dark being that adults use to scare children into doing what they are supposed to. So, what if the bogeyman became real? What if he was real to you? He was to me. Not necessarily as described or thought of in the usual way, but everything he was meant to be: frightening, haunting, terrifying, etc. So, this is my letter to my bogeyman.

Dear Bogeyman,

You were the monster under my bed. You were the fear in the dark. Everywhere I went, I was afraid you would find me. Everyone I saw, I questioned "Does he know them? Are they watching me for him?" Every time I was happy, your daunting image flashed into my mind and I was once again fearful. I tried to disown you. I tried to deny your existence. I tried to repress those memories. I became so used to those dreams, so accustomed to seeing your face in my nightmares, hearing your words. I don't dream anymore. Not good dreams. Not really. Everything is tainted. Every time I sleep, I wake periodically from a nightmare. However,  I no longer scream. I don't cry out. I don't even shake or shiver. I just roll over and go back to sleep, moving on to the next time I'll see your grimaces. Every time I couldn't find momma, I thought of you. Thought you'd had something done with her. Every time I couldn't find my brother, I thought you'd found him, kidnapped him forever. Every car I saw slow around the driveway, every car I saw pulled up to the house when I got off the bus in the afternoon, I thought belonged to you. I'd run to my room, or sneak around to the back door. Anything to avoid you. I remember the nights my brother and I cried, asking why we had to do it. I remember the nights I cried. The nights I asked why, when you whispered nightmarish things to me. But now, I'm older. Now, I see you for what you are. I've seen your tears, your pitiful attempts at manipulation. I'm not 3 anymore, nor am I 8. I'm not a little kid, and I'm no longer a teenager. Your words, your ice-cold caress, none of it means anything. I see you for the pitiful little shadow that you are, hiding in the corner and playing with the lights. I see the silly little faces you make, trying for my pity, longing for my affection, searching for that grip around my neck. But, its not there, is it? No longer can you touch me. You're a pitiful little storybook horror, and now I see you. I see you for everything that you are, and I no longer fear you. The only place you have any dark power is in my dreams. And I no longer scream. I just roll over and go back to sleep...

Honestly,

Your son.

Question Game!!!

Hey there Life Charmers! How's it goin?

Okay, so, as promised, I'm going to post a few questions that I think are good for the question game. Don't know what the question game is? Well, when you're texting a guy/girl you like and you want a way to flirt that isn't outright obvious, or you want to be slick with your sexual questions, you ask eachother random questions. You can either ask them a question, have them answer and move on or ask a question, have them answer, and respond with your answer and move on to the next question.

Anyway, so as I mentioned in a past post, I was looking for questions to ask when playing the question game and I found these awful questions that were useless, boring, or just flat out dirty!

Sooo, here are a few of my own questions.

Favorite color/food/tv show/article of clothing/etc.? (favorite anything is always a good question)

Hobbies?

Last book you read?

Last meal you ate?

Favorite thing to do by yourself?

Best friend's name?

Longest relationship?

Ideal relationship?

What do you look for in a guy/girl?

First pet?

Biggest fear?

Who is your favorite family member?

Any siblings?

What's something you've never told anyone? (can be silly or serious)

Attribute that you're most proud of? (physical or non)

Thing you dislike the most about yourself?

What's the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?

Best memory?

Guilty pleasures?

Worst date ever?

Ideal date?

(Any best/worst is really useful, because it lets you know what they dislike/like.)

(For gays) When did you come out? Was your family supportive?



Annnnnddd that's all I can think of right now. Comment if you'd like more!! :D

Hope everyone has a fantastic Thanksgiving!!!

Lots of love and light!

Davy

Thanksgiving Post!!!

Hey there Life Charmers!

How is everyone this week? Good, I hope.

I won't be able to post over the Thanksgiving Holiday, so I figured I'd go ahead and post my "Thankful" blog.

This post will be about all of the things I'm thankful for in my life. I'll just do 20. :D So, let the gratitude begin!!

First and foremost, I'm thankful for my mother. She is, by far, the most amazing mother in the world, and I would not trade a moment with her for anything in existence.

Second, I am thankful for my loving brother. Without him, I would not know what its like to be so annoyed and so loved by someone at the same time. haha

Third, my nephew, Dominic. Because he is going to be SO spoiled at uncle Davy's!!! :D

Fourth, my grandmother, who, crazy as she may be, is always there for me.

Fifth, my aunt. Not many people have the blessing of being able to grow up with their aunt. Being four years apart, we're almost like siblings.

Sixth, I am thankful for all of my WONDERFUL friends!!! I'd mention them all, but I don't want to name them without their permission. But seriously, I have freaking wonderful friends.

Seventh, I am so thankful for Debra Katz and everything that she has done for me and all of the wonderful things that she has taught me and is teaching me, along with thousands of others!!

Eight, I am thankful for the wonderful people on Seventhsight.org. I know they don't talk much, but they are seriously such sweethearts!

Ninth, I am thankful for my exes. Without them, I wouldn't know what I don't want in a relationship. Specifically, my most recent ex. Without him, I wouldn't feel beautiful.

Tenth, I am thankful for my spirit guides. Seriously, this should have been at the top of my list, but this list isn't necessarily in order of importance, so its okay. I wouldn't be where I am today without their help and loving guidance.

Eleventh, I am thankful for my teachers for bestowing upon me all of the wonderful things they have taught me. Teachers are SO under-recognized.

Twelfth, I am thankful for the rest of my family. I wouldn't be comfortable being myself if it weren't for all of you.

Thirteenth, I am thankful for social sites, because I would be SO bored at work without them.

Fourteenth, I am thankful for all of the people who make fun of me and made fun of me. You made me stronger than you could ever comprehend.

Fifteenth, I am SO thankful for all of you who read this blog. (all five of you. haha I kid, I kid.) Seriously, thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings.

Sixteenth, I am thankful for snack food (Specifically, cookies!!!). Without it, I would be skinny. haha

Seventeenth, I am thankful for the creator. You have created a marvelous existence.

Eighteenth, I am thankful for my intellect. Seriously, whoever gave me this, you have no idea the wonderful gift you gave me.

Nineteenth, this one is incredibly vain, but I am thankful for my beauty. Both inside and without. I am not the most gorgeous person in the world, but I am FAR from ugly. Baby, I look good. haha Or so I think. haha And I am very thankful for this, because I didn't always believe it.

Twentieth, I am thankful for the future. It makes me happy to know that there is no limit to the possibilities!! :D

I hope you all find something to be thankful for this holiday!!

Lots of love and light!!

Davy

Date. Today. SO EXCITED!!!!

Hey there Life Charmers!!

Well, before I get into my excitement, I wanted to kind of explain why I changed my little greeting.

But, first, have a cookie! :D

Was it good? Well, awesome! :))

Okay, now, lol. So I was saying "Charming Lifers" because I also work on the site seventhsight.org and that's the say I greet the members! Seventhsighters! So, I was like, yeah, I'll just add an -er and be awesome. But, it felt like it was missing something. Like, although so far most of my posts have been just about my random day to day life and what's on my mind (like this one will be), I intend to post lots of helpful things to any psychics or witches or anyone out there who wants to learn whatever they can! Or, if you think we're all devil worshippers, well... Sorry, but I don't subscribe to your religious views. I prefer to rejoice at the thought of my deity, not fear and doubt every action for the thought that I'm going to burn eternally. Sorry. And, if I will, well, I'll have MARSHMALLOWS!!!! YAY!!

Okay, anyway, so my point is that, by calling you Life Charmers, I'm emphasizing that you have the ability to charm your own life and make it whatever you want. Isn't that fantastic?! I thought so, too. In fact, I'm so proud of myself, I'll have a cookie.

*NOMZ*

Okay, I'm back! :D

So, about my date tonight.

I'm super excited! You guys remember I mentioned Fox? Well, tonight is our date night. We're gonna hang out and eat and watch movies and just have a good time. And I'm super excited. Like, SUPER EXCITED, as I'm sure all of my Facebook friends know by now. lol Poor people, reading my giddy statuses. *sigh*

Anyway! I don't know what we'll watch, I don't know what we'll eat, but I do know there will be couch snugglez!!!! :D :D :D

Okay, I could go on, but I won't bore you guys. The two or three of you that happen upon my page occasionally. haha

I'm just excited cuz I like this guy. I think I like him a lot. Annnnndddd, maybe, possibly, I think he likes me too. D: I know! Something has to be wrong with his brain, right? But, I haven't discovered anything yet, so pray for me! (To whomever you pray to!)



But, in all seriousness, I am very appreciative to those of you who check out my blog. Even if only for a second. It really means a lot to me, and I hope you don't think I'm completely insane. Ha.

Until next time,
Lots of love and light!

Davy

Pretty Pictures!!!

Good Morning Life Charmers!!

How is everyone this morning? Or night. Or whatever it is when you happen to come across this. :)

I was searching for pictures that were appropriate for psychic development, and I found these lovely images that I would like to share with you all. I do not know the original sources, but if you google "Psychic Abilities," you will find these in the image results. :)

My favorite is the winged elf. :))

On a different topic, things are going well with my new guy friend. :)) We'll call him Fox. :D

We have lots in common and are both incredibly attracted to each other. It was really sweet, he asked me what kind of wedding I want when I get married, and our ideal weddings were complete opposites, but he said his version could be for the reception and mine the wedding. :)) I know, its corny that this made me happy, but it did.

We play the question game when we text and I was looking for more questions online because I've run out. Well, fair warning, the ones on the internet suck. A LOT. I'll have to make a new list. And make a post about it. :D

Anyway, I hope everyone is having a fabulous week!!!

Davy

Dating! -- It's Important!

Happy Sunday Life Charmers!!

How has everyone's weekend been? Mine was over yesterday, so it was incredibly short. :/

I wanted to post today about dating. Why? Cuz that's what I've been doing of course! haha

Its been almost three months since my breakup with my four year relationship-ex. And, to be honest, I do think about him about once a day. Granted, I don't think about him in the way he'd like for me to, but I do think about him. I think about all of the things that I wish I'd done differently. I wonder, if I'd have respected myself earlier, would have still have been together for four years? I think, maybe if I'd have shoved his head up his butt he may have seen how big of an a$$hole he really was. Jk, I kid...mostly. But seriously, I'm single, yes. I sleep alone, yes. I don't have someone to say "I love you" every two seconds, no. But, I do have a world full of potential guys who may or may not turn out to be the love of my life.

And at the moment, you ask? At the moment I'm holding down a full time job, going to school full time, maintaining a 3.7 GPA, and I have the affections of many people (both romantic and non).

For example, recently I had my date with the guy that gave me roses. That was very nice and possibly will happen again. :))

And now I am talking to a sweetheart who very well may turn out to be more than just a pleasant friendship. :D

He's very kind, a sweetheart, doesn't mind me being weird, actually finds my psychic stuff interesting (which is incredibly rare in the south. ha), and is overall just a great guy. We have a lot in common, and we both value similar things, which is nice.

But, I didn't decide to make this post to brag about my sweet guy. No, I made this post to talk about the importance of dating.

Everyone wants love, but nobody wants to work for it. You won't always luck up and find your soulmate in a couple tries. Heck, you may never find your soul mate. I know, I know, that's depressing, but seriously, they may not even be on Earth this lifetime and are probably patiently waiting for you to cross over so you two can be together again.

I see people complaining all the time about how they want a good relationship, but they continue to fall for the same people because they find them "hot." Honey, grow up. First of all, half of them don't even know who they are yet, so how in the hell are their partners supposed to be suited for them? Sure, they fit now, but what about four years down the road when you realize you are a completely different person and can't stand the person you're with? What? That happens! I'm proof! haha

Anyway, but seriously, get to know yourself first. Date, have fun, go to movies and out to dinner.

IMPORTANT!!! Just because he pays for a movie ticket or a meal doesn't mean he deserves anything more than a coy smile and batted eyelashes. Come on people, have some self respect.

Sorry, little rant there.

Anywho! But seriously, dating is important. Not only do you get the experience of having fun in a healthy way, but you get to figure out what types of guys/girls you actually like, and figure out tell-tale signs that someone is NOT for you. Its a win/win!

For example, I've learned that I love a guy who can make me laugh, and I don't like guys who want to go out the whole date. If a guy would rather snuggle on a couch and watch a movie than go out to the movies, I'm good. But, if he tries sticking his hands down my pants or raping me during a commercial break, well. Not my fault if he loses an appendage. O:-)
But, I've learned how to tell if they'll do that, too, so I'm good.

Also, if a guy or girl sends you dirty text messages and dirty pics when you've only been talking for less than a week, don't think you're the only one they're doing that with, and PLEASE for God's sake, don't fall in love with them if they are sexy. Yes, they are sexy, yes, you can enjoy that sexiness, but that will go away, and then you'll be stuck with a narcissistic toad. Just saying...

Anyway, I hope you all have a fabulous week!

Lots of love and light!
Davy

Happy Monday

Happy Monday Life Charmers!!!

That's right, I changed your name. Muahahaha!!! .... O.O

Sooo, how is everyone? Did ya have a good weekend? I did. :))

I went on a daaaatte! *sings badly*

Speaking of my singing...Its awful. Like, so awful its epic. People would pay to hear me sing, just so that they had proof that singing could be that bad. LOL

Anywayyyyz, back to my weekend. :)

For the first time since I started my job in January, I had Friday and Saturday night off. So, of course, I did what any college student who never has time to study does. I went to the movies! hahaha *poke* you silly, thought I was gonna say study. tehe

Friday night I had a date. :) I was excited. Its been almost three months since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, and there's a guy I've been talking to for a while that I was like, ya know what, I'm free friday, we should go out. And we did. :))

First we went to PF Chang's. That was good. I got the honey battered chicken. I probably sounded like a little kid when I unwrapped my silverwear and was like "OMG, CHOPSTICKS!!" lol. Oh well, didn't scare him away though. :)) Theeennnn, we took his car (well, his mom's car because he likes to drive it rather than his own) and we went to the movies. We saw the new movie Cloud Atlas. It was very good. Very interesting, engaging, and presents many enlightening ideas. Great movie for food for thought. You should watch it. And eat a cookie, because you watched a good movie. Then reward yourself with another cookie. :D (Remember though, sharing is caring. :D)

Theeeennnn, we went to his aunt's house, and I was like OMG this woman is rich. haha Cuz she is. We had to let her dogs out, then we went to his house to let his dog out. He has a BEAUTIFUL English Golden Retriever. So pretty. And fluffy. And big. :) And he thinks he's a lap dog. hahaha

His house also made me go "OHMAGEEZ". See, my family was not homeless poor, but we were moderately poor. My brother and I didn't go without,, but I can remember many nights when we were young that my mom went without so that we could eat. (Best mom ever, btw.) So, you'll understand when I was amazed at the house on the lake with the beautiful view and the two story gorgeous house, designed and built by his parents. *sigh* I loved it at night, because the moon was high in the sky, shining its silver light across the grass. It was gorgeous. Then, when I got up the next morning at nine, I went out on the patio and meditated for an hour. I was in heaven. :D

All night he was wanting to touch me and hold me and kiss me, but didn't know if he should. (I was "feeling" all night to check and make sure things were going well. Of course, they were. :D Oh the benefits of being a psychic.) But, I don't like to make the first move, so I decided to wait.

I was going to go back to my car, but I was too tired, so I slept over.
And no, no sex, I'm not trash, tyvm. :)

THEN the next day, my bestest friend and I went to the movies and saw Pitch Perfect. It. Was. Amazing. I love that movie! :D

That night my date from the night before and I decided I'd come over again. I washed clothes and we watched Magic Mike. LOVE the sexual attraction of the movie, but it sucked. I'm sorry, but it did. It was awful. Underdeveloped, badly directed, bad quality to emphasize the "reality" of it all, just an overall crappy movie.
The next morning we woke up and watched Prometheus. :) Then I went home. Bless his heart, he was sick this morning. Hope he gets better. :)

The best part about that night (last night, now night before last technically) was when I came in. I walked in the door and he said he had a surprise for me. So, I was like okay, and he covered my eyes. And when we rounded the corner....

These beautiful flowers were waiting for me. :D 

I was so touched. He thought it was corny, but I was incredibly humbled. No one has gotten me flowers before. It made me want to cry. :)) I know, I'm a sap, get over it.

The only thing I worry about is that he doesn't know I'm psychic. And, if he does, because we are FB friends, and thinks its weird, I don't know how to react. Like, I like him, and he is incredibly sweet. But, Idk. Not many people think much of me when I tell them I'm psychic, ya know? 

Anyway, so yeah, that was my weekend. :D

Hope yours went wonderfully!

Lots of love and light!

Davy

Precognition

Hello Charming Lifers!!!

How is everyone this day after Dia de los Muertos?
How was your Halloween/Samhain?
Any ghosts pay a visit?

Well today/tonight I wanted to post about a topic that came up in my advanced psychic development class. We were assigned it for homework last week, and I wanted to share with you all both the exercise and the results. :))

So, the exercise itself has to do with just relaxing and allowing yourself to use your precognitive abilities.

For those of you who don't know what precognition is, it is the ability to know the future. Also known as future sight or second sight, precognition is the psychic sense of gaining information that one has no way of gaining or deducing by any "natural" means. Pre meaning before, and cognitio being the latin word for acquiring knowledge, precognition is a very useful ability, as I'm sure you can imagine. And, the more you use it, the more frequently it occurs.

So, the exercise is pretty simple. Mainly, you just set your intention to receive precognitive information about the next few minutes. So, like sitting in class, or at work, or just walking around a store or the mall or something. Heck, even playing around on the internet or on facebook. Just close your eyes for a moment and say to yourself "I would like to receive psychic information about the next few minutes." And make sure that you're open to it. If you don't think you will receive anything, very simply put, you won't. Be open to anything that comes in, and make note of any information you receive. I'll explain what happens, that way you'll have an outline of the basic experience.

I have two to list. These were two of my experiences with this exercise.

The first I did while driving, which I don't advise. I didn't close my eyes, but I meditate enough to be able to kind of put myself on autopilot for a few moments while I go within. (what we call "going within" is when you pull your focus to inside of yourself)
So, I make this basic trip every now and then, and have been for about four years. Its a two and a half hours, and right on the two hour mark there is a gas station in a town, Louisville. So, I stop to get gas at the gas station every trip. Anyway, so I know Louisville is coming up, and the night before we were assigned the precognitive homework,, so I figure I'll give it a shot. This experience was very directed, which I don't advise for your first time because if you don't practice your psychic abilities often, it may not work well and you'll be discouraged and won't want to try it again. I much advise an experience like the next one. Anyway, so I know I'll be getting gas soon, so I ask "What gas pump will I get gas at?" I instantly get the number 6. Well, I figure I'll cheat and pull in there on purpose, then I pretty much put it out of my mind. I thought I remembered relatively where pump 6 is, so when I turn in, I try to park at it. Well, there was someone pulling in on the other side, and I went ahead and let them go and I looked for another open pump. I didn't look at any numbers or anything because I had pretty much forgotten about it by then. Anyway, there was only one pump available, at the opposite end of the parking lot, so I pull in there, get out, and start to head inside to prepay. I remember that I need to know what pump I'm at, and I look up to see a big number 6 on my pump!!! I giggled to myself, "Of course!" and walked inside to pay for my gas.

The next experience I had was even more amazing. I work at a hotel, and I fold receipts for the guests who are due to check out that day. Well, this morning I was folding receipts and when I finished, I had a few minutes to waste until it was time to put them out, so I figured I'd give my precognitive abilities a second shot. I asked for information about what was going to happen in the next few minutes. I got the number 224. So, I went through the receipts and, sure enough, room 224 was checking out today. So, I pulled out the receipt and was going to hold it and try to receive more information, but before I got the chance, a woman stepped out of the elevator and walked towards me. I put the receipt down beside my computer and asked her if I could help her. She said she was checking out, and I asked what room number. "I was in 224," she said. My jaw dropped. I smiled and said "I knew you were coming." (lol that didn't sound creepy at all. haha) She laughed, and I handed her the receipt, then she looked at me and noticed that her receipt was the only one that wasn't in the pile to my right. "You did know, didn't you?!" she asked. We both laughed, and she hightailed it out of the hotel. haha It was pretty frickin awesome! :D

So, yeah! Those were my experiences! Hope you enjoyed, and feel free to comment with your own experiences!!! :D

Lots of love and light!
Davy