Hey there Life Charmers!
How is everyone?
Well I wanted to let you guys know why I wasn't posting very much. I have been working a lot, but I've been coming up with ideas for videos to post. I would like to put a couple videos up introducing myself and talking about various topics.
I know there aren't very many of you, but if there are any topics you would like for me to discuss, please let me know. I know you don't know much about me, but I'm well-versed in the supernatural and "new age" styled topics. :D
On another note, I wanted to talk about another topic today.
There is something that has been going on in my life for a few years. Things are difficult and times are hard. I have not been able to see my mother in over a year. This is due to someone making an irrational and exaggerated decision and banning me from the facility she is housed in. Now, about six months ago I inquired about changing the ban. I was polite and respectful and didn't say a cross word. That did not work. So, here I am, six months later, approaching the second Christmas without seeing my mother. Needless to say, I am not a happy camper. So, I wanted to talk about how there is a time to be nice, and then there comes a time to stand up and raise hell if you have to. This is one of those times for me.
Do not be afraid to stand up for yourself and demand change. This world is yours as much as it is anyone else's. Demand your space and stand up for your rights. If you don't, no one will.
Lots of love to you guys!
Davy
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Monday, December 10, 2012
My Chakradance Experience!
Hello there Life Charmers!!
How is everyone? Oh come on, I know a few of you want to at least say hello! No? Not even 1? Well, no one gets a cookie! :P
Sorry, I was having a moment. ha
Okay, so day before yesterday, Saturday, I received my Chakradance order. I wasn't able to use it until yesterday (Domingo--That's right b*t(hes, I'm bilingual! haha), and let me say O.M.G! Haha. It was a very interesting and powerful experience.
Now, I'm not one to say that. Like, if something is cool, its cool. But, this was amazing.
To Chakradance, you cut off all the lights in the room you are dancing in, and you light a single candle and turn on the disc. You close your eyes and just let go. You allow your body to start dancing however feels right. You kinda just dance like a looney toon. LOL But, dear lord, it works! You get a work out, and you actually get into it and before you know it, you're doing the things you're supposed to without having to be told.
At the beginning of each track, they talk and set up a visual scenario, and tell you which chakra you're focusing on, and then a few seconds go by (during which you are dancing) and they tell you a little bit about how to dance (with your legs, your hips, etc.) And, by the fourth track, my body was already reacting the way it was supposed to without them saying so. I started dancing with my hands and arms primarily, and a few seconds later they say "You're dancing with your arms and hands." and I'm like, yes, yes I am! haha
Once I got to the throat chakra, I was really friggin into it. haha (and drenched in sweat! haha WHAT a workout!!) And there's a moment when they say to listen to your own voice, so I did, and it was amazing! I actually heard the voice of my soul! It was beautiful! And, of course, I wanted to hear it again, and so I told myself to listen to myself. Well, I did, and I didn't have the experience I expected. ha I heard my own frequency. And dear jeebus!! I am frickin high-pitched! haha It hurt, I was so loud!
When I finished, I could feel my energy running through my seven chakras and out through my feet and crown. I've never felt that before. It was amazing. :D
Anyway, I just wanted to share my experience!
Have a fabulous week!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
My Rant for the Week!
Hey there Life Charmers!
How are you today?
I am terrific, but I wanted to rant about a few things. :)
The major thing I want to rant about is the stupidity of religious people who have these idiotic opinions about gay people.
I mean seriously. This thought was brought about by the pastor in North Carolina, Pastor Worley, who said in one of his sermons that gay people should be fenced in and left to die. >>>>>Here<<<<< is a link to the article that I read about it. LOVE her, btw.
So, as she said, instead of getting mad or shocked about this, I literally fell out laughing after reading this. Like, seriously? This is why Christians get such a bad rep. Well, one of the reasons. But, seriously, why would any sane Christian allow this man to represent them? WHY? Maybe they just weren't aware how stupid he is. Maybe they were... Who knows? Anyway...
So, in addition to this, there was a picture of a woman who said that she believed what the pastor said, and that the gays should be isolated and "prevent them from reproducing"................................Really?
I think I'll cut that off right there. Anyone who thinks that two men or two women can reproduce does not deserve the thought I would waste explaining what is wrong with that statement.
ANYWAY! lol
I also wanna do a little rant about finals. This week is the week of my semester finals at my college. And I am not sure how I will survive through the end of them. Seriously. Do you know how much studying I am going to have to do for these things? Of course you don't, you're not in my classes. XD But, its a lot!!! lol I have Spanish 2, Ethics, Western Civilization 2, and American Literature 2. Am. Lit 2 doesn't bother me. If I weren't a psychology major, I would be an English major. I love English. lol BUT, Spanish is a different story. I can understand the structure of the sentences. I can understand the grammar. But, for some reason, I CANNOT LEARN THE WORDS!!! Like, seriously, I know tener. That's about it. lol It is awful. :( It makes me sad. So, I'm going to continue with my rant! :D
Like, why do we have to have finals? Don't answer that, I'm not stupid, I know why we have to have finals, I was just being a child for a moment. Its over now. Thank you. :)
OH! That reminds me about the >>>>>Daughter Responds Video<<<<< that I watched the other day. Now, I want to first off say that this video is not of the real daughter. This is some girl pretending to be the daughter of >>>>>The Father Who Shot His Daughter's Laptop<<<<< and its ridiculous. Like, when I watched the girl's response, I was like, ya know, if this is true, she's a little bit dramatic, but I think she has a right to do this. BUT, almost all the way through the video, she gets stupid. The whole crap about parents being jealous because they can't do what kids can do. That's ridiculous. And the crap she said was really stupid. Then I watched the dad's video and wanted to say bravo! I mean, yes, redneck parenting, but still! Good redneck parenting. Shooting the laptop is a little over-dramatic, but still. This girl was being a spoiled little brat (which I think is the parent's fault because they didn't raise her to appreciate what she has, but still) and he set her straight. The thing is that he is PISSED.. You can really tell when he starts stuttering (obviously a problem he had corrected, but when in high-stress situations, the stuttering comes back). But, yeah, go dad! ha (And I think he's kinda cute for an old redneck. tehe. :))
That brings me to another rant topic. Children: WTF is going through your minds?! Who the heck do you think you are?! Seriously, regardless of the parent, you are here because of them. They raise you, they provide shelter for you, they feed you, they cloth you, they take care of you. When you were a baby, they cleaned up your shit and didn't throw you down a set of stairs when you peed in their faces! (Attempted joke, do NOT go throwing babies down stairs!) But, seriously. Do you know how frickin lucky you are?! There are homeless people all over the world, and you have an Iphone (which I don't even have because I couldn't afford it), you don't have to pay bills, you have computers, most of you have freakin cars that your parents bought you, and you aren't missing anything that you need. You don't go without food or water. You have plenty of time to sleep and get your rest. You can do whatever you want (within reason). STOP BEING LITTLE BRATS!!! And to all the girls posting pictures of themselves half-naked allover the internet: Honey, get some self-respect. If that attracts him, he's not worth keeping. *sigh* I'm going to stop now before I actually get angry.
Okay I have plenty more to rant about, but I'll stop for now.
Thank you for dealing with my ranting! I love you guys! (all 7 of you!)
Love and light!
Davy
How are you today?
I am terrific, but I wanted to rant about a few things. :)
The major thing I want to rant about is the stupidity of religious people who have these idiotic opinions about gay people.
I mean seriously. This thought was brought about by the pastor in North Carolina, Pastor Worley, who said in one of his sermons that gay people should be fenced in and left to die. >>>>>Here<<<<< is a link to the article that I read about it. LOVE her, btw.
So, as she said, instead of getting mad or shocked about this, I literally fell out laughing after reading this. Like, seriously? This is why Christians get such a bad rep. Well, one of the reasons. But, seriously, why would any sane Christian allow this man to represent them? WHY? Maybe they just weren't aware how stupid he is. Maybe they were... Who knows? Anyway...
So, in addition to this, there was a picture of a woman who said that she believed what the pastor said, and that the gays should be isolated and "prevent them from reproducing"................................Really?
I think I'll cut that off right there. Anyone who thinks that two men or two women can reproduce does not deserve the thought I would waste explaining what is wrong with that statement.
ANYWAY! lol
I also wanna do a little rant about finals. This week is the week of my semester finals at my college. And I am not sure how I will survive through the end of them. Seriously. Do you know how much studying I am going to have to do for these things? Of course you don't, you're not in my classes. XD But, its a lot!!! lol I have Spanish 2, Ethics, Western Civilization 2, and American Literature 2. Am. Lit 2 doesn't bother me. If I weren't a psychology major, I would be an English major. I love English. lol BUT, Spanish is a different story. I can understand the structure of the sentences. I can understand the grammar. But, for some reason, I CANNOT LEARN THE WORDS!!! Like, seriously, I know tener. That's about it. lol It is awful. :( It makes me sad. So, I'm going to continue with my rant! :D
Like, why do we have to have finals? Don't answer that, I'm not stupid, I know why we have to have finals, I was just being a child for a moment. Its over now. Thank you. :)
OH! That reminds me about the >>>>>Daughter Responds Video<<<<< that I watched the other day. Now, I want to first off say that this video is not of the real daughter. This is some girl pretending to be the daughter of >>>>>The Father Who Shot His Daughter's Laptop<<<<< and its ridiculous. Like, when I watched the girl's response, I was like, ya know, if this is true, she's a little bit dramatic, but I think she has a right to do this. BUT, almost all the way through the video, she gets stupid. The whole crap about parents being jealous because they can't do what kids can do. That's ridiculous. And the crap she said was really stupid. Then I watched the dad's video and wanted to say bravo! I mean, yes, redneck parenting, but still! Good redneck parenting. Shooting the laptop is a little over-dramatic, but still. This girl was being a spoiled little brat (which I think is the parent's fault because they didn't raise her to appreciate what she has, but still) and he set her straight. The thing is that he is PISSED.. You can really tell when he starts stuttering (obviously a problem he had corrected, but when in high-stress situations, the stuttering comes back). But, yeah, go dad! ha (And I think he's kinda cute for an old redneck. tehe. :))
That brings me to another rant topic. Children: WTF is going through your minds?! Who the heck do you think you are?! Seriously, regardless of the parent, you are here because of them. They raise you, they provide shelter for you, they feed you, they cloth you, they take care of you. When you were a baby, they cleaned up your shit and didn't throw you down a set of stairs when you peed in their faces! (Attempted joke, do NOT go throwing babies down stairs!) But, seriously. Do you know how frickin lucky you are?! There are homeless people all over the world, and you have an Iphone (which I don't even have because I couldn't afford it), you don't have to pay bills, you have computers, most of you have freakin cars that your parents bought you, and you aren't missing anything that you need. You don't go without food or water. You have plenty of time to sleep and get your rest. You can do whatever you want (within reason). STOP BEING LITTLE BRATS!!! And to all the girls posting pictures of themselves half-naked allover the internet: Honey, get some self-respect. If that attracts him, he's not worth keeping. *sigh* I'm going to stop now before I actually get angry.
Okay I have plenty more to rant about, but I'll stop for now.
Thank you for dealing with my ranting! I love you guys! (all 7 of you!)
Love and light!
Davy
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
The Bogeyman
Goodmorning/evening Life Charmers!
Today's post is a little darker and sadder than my usual posts. I try to emit positivity and vibrance, but sometimes I get down and don't feel too positive. ha Well, recently I had one of those days, and the thought of writing blog post about it came to me. So, I promised myself that I would. And here I am doing so. Sooo, without further ado, let's begin.
The Bogeyman is a character/creature that we associate with nightmares and terror. It is a dark being that adults use to scare children into doing what they are supposed to. So, what if the bogeyman became real? What if he was real to you? He was to me. Not necessarily as described or thought of in the usual way, but everything he was meant to be: frightening, haunting, terrifying, etc. So, this is my letter to my bogeyman.
Dear Bogeyman,
You were the monster under my bed. You were the fear in the dark. Everywhere I went, I was afraid you would find me. Everyone I saw, I questioned "Does he know them? Are they watching me for him?" Every time I was happy, your daunting image flashed into my mind and I was once again fearful. I tried to disown you. I tried to deny your existence. I tried to repress those memories. I became so used to those dreams, so accustomed to seeing your face in my nightmares, hearing your words. I don't dream anymore. Not good dreams. Not really. Everything is tainted. Every time I sleep, I wake periodically from a nightmare. However, I no longer scream. I don't cry out. I don't even shake or shiver. I just roll over and go back to sleep, moving on to the next time I'll see your grimaces. Every time I couldn't find momma, I thought of you. Thought you'd had something done with her. Every time I couldn't find my brother, I thought you'd found him, kidnapped him forever. Every car I saw slow around the driveway, every car I saw pulled up to the house when I got off the bus in the afternoon, I thought belonged to you. I'd run to my room, or sneak around to the back door. Anything to avoid you. I remember the nights my brother and I cried, asking why we had to do it. I remember the nights I cried. The nights I asked why, when you whispered nightmarish things to me. But now, I'm older. Now, I see you for what you are. I've seen your tears, your pitiful attempts at manipulation. I'm not 3 anymore, nor am I 8. I'm not a little kid, and I'm no longer a teenager. Your words, your ice-cold caress, none of it means anything. I see you for the pitiful little shadow that you are, hiding in the corner and playing with the lights. I see the silly little faces you make, trying for my pity, longing for my affection, searching for that grip around my neck. But, its not there, is it? No longer can you touch me. You're a pitiful little storybook horror, and now I see you. I see you for everything that you are, and I no longer fear you. The only place you have any dark power is in my dreams. And I no longer scream. I just roll over and go back to sleep...
Honestly,
Your son.
Today's post is a little darker and sadder than my usual posts. I try to emit positivity and vibrance, but sometimes I get down and don't feel too positive. ha Well, recently I had one of those days, and the thought of writing blog post about it came to me. So, I promised myself that I would. And here I am doing so. Sooo, without further ado, let's begin.
The Bogeyman is a character/creature that we associate with nightmares and terror. It is a dark being that adults use to scare children into doing what they are supposed to. So, what if the bogeyman became real? What if he was real to you? He was to me. Not necessarily as described or thought of in the usual way, but everything he was meant to be: frightening, haunting, terrifying, etc. So, this is my letter to my bogeyman.
Dear Bogeyman,
You were the monster under my bed. You were the fear in the dark. Everywhere I went, I was afraid you would find me. Everyone I saw, I questioned "Does he know them? Are they watching me for him?" Every time I was happy, your daunting image flashed into my mind and I was once again fearful. I tried to disown you. I tried to deny your existence. I tried to repress those memories. I became so used to those dreams, so accustomed to seeing your face in my nightmares, hearing your words. I don't dream anymore. Not good dreams. Not really. Everything is tainted. Every time I sleep, I wake periodically from a nightmare. However, I no longer scream. I don't cry out. I don't even shake or shiver. I just roll over and go back to sleep, moving on to the next time I'll see your grimaces. Every time I couldn't find momma, I thought of you. Thought you'd had something done with her. Every time I couldn't find my brother, I thought you'd found him, kidnapped him forever. Every car I saw slow around the driveway, every car I saw pulled up to the house when I got off the bus in the afternoon, I thought belonged to you. I'd run to my room, or sneak around to the back door. Anything to avoid you. I remember the nights my brother and I cried, asking why we had to do it. I remember the nights I cried. The nights I asked why, when you whispered nightmarish things to me. But now, I'm older. Now, I see you for what you are. I've seen your tears, your pitiful attempts at manipulation. I'm not 3 anymore, nor am I 8. I'm not a little kid, and I'm no longer a teenager. Your words, your ice-cold caress, none of it means anything. I see you for the pitiful little shadow that you are, hiding in the corner and playing with the lights. I see the silly little faces you make, trying for my pity, longing for my affection, searching for that grip around my neck. But, its not there, is it? No longer can you touch me. You're a pitiful little storybook horror, and now I see you. I see you for everything that you are, and I no longer fear you. The only place you have any dark power is in my dreams. And I no longer scream. I just roll over and go back to sleep...
Honestly,
Your son.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Question Game!!!
Hey there Life Charmers! How's it goin?
Okay, so, as promised, I'm going to post a few questions that I think are good for the question game. Don't know what the question game is? Well, when you're texting a guy/girl you like and you want a way to flirt that isn't outright obvious, or you want to be slick with your sexual questions, you ask eachother random questions. You can either ask them a question, have them answer and move on or ask a question, have them answer, and respond with your answer and move on to the next question.
Anyway, so as I mentioned in a past post, I was looking for questions to ask when playing the question game and I found these awful questions that were useless, boring, or just flat out dirty!
Sooo, here are a few of my own questions.
Favorite color/food/tv show/article of clothing/etc.? (favorite anything is always a good question)
Hobbies?
Last book you read?
Last meal you ate?
Favorite thing to do by yourself?
Best friend's name?
Longest relationship?
Ideal relationship?
What do you look for in a guy/girl?
First pet?
Biggest fear?
Who is your favorite family member?
Any siblings?
What's something you've never told anyone? (can be silly or serious)
Attribute that you're most proud of? (physical or non)
Thing you dislike the most about yourself?
What's the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?
Best memory?
Guilty pleasures?
Worst date ever?
Ideal date?
(Any best/worst is really useful, because it lets you know what they dislike/like.)
(For gays) When did you come out? Was your family supportive?
Annnnnddd that's all I can think of right now. Comment if you'd like more!! :D
Hope everyone has a fantastic Thanksgiving!!!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Okay, so, as promised, I'm going to post a few questions that I think are good for the question game. Don't know what the question game is? Well, when you're texting a guy/girl you like and you want a way to flirt that isn't outright obvious, or you want to be slick with your sexual questions, you ask eachother random questions. You can either ask them a question, have them answer and move on or ask a question, have them answer, and respond with your answer and move on to the next question.
Anyway, so as I mentioned in a past post, I was looking for questions to ask when playing the question game and I found these awful questions that were useless, boring, or just flat out dirty!
Sooo, here are a few of my own questions.
Favorite color/food/tv show/article of clothing/etc.? (favorite anything is always a good question)
Hobbies?
Last book you read?
Last meal you ate?
Favorite thing to do by yourself?
Best friend's name?
Longest relationship?
Ideal relationship?
What do you look for in a guy/girl?
First pet?
Biggest fear?
Who is your favorite family member?
Any siblings?
What's something you've never told anyone? (can be silly or serious)
Attribute that you're most proud of? (physical or non)
Thing you dislike the most about yourself?
What's the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?
Best memory?
Guilty pleasures?
Worst date ever?
Ideal date?
(Any best/worst is really useful, because it lets you know what they dislike/like.)
(For gays) When did you come out? Was your family supportive?
Annnnnddd that's all I can think of right now. Comment if you'd like more!! :D
Hope everyone has a fantastic Thanksgiving!!!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Monday, November 19, 2012
Thanksgiving Post!!!
Hey there Life Charmers!
How is everyone this week? Good, I hope.
I won't be able to post over the Thanksgiving Holiday, so I figured I'd go ahead and post my "Thankful" blog.
This post will be about all of the things I'm thankful for in my life. I'll just do 20. :D So, let the gratitude begin!!
First and foremost, I'm thankful for my mother. She is, by far, the most amazing mother in the world, and I would not trade a moment with her for anything in existence.
Second, I am thankful for my loving brother. Without him, I would not know what its like to be so annoyed and so loved by someone at the same time. haha
Third, my nephew, Dominic. Because he is going to be SO spoiled at uncle Davy's!!! :D
Fourth, my grandmother, who, crazy as she may be, is always there for me.
Fifth, my aunt. Not many people have the blessing of being able to grow up with their aunt. Being four years apart, we're almost like siblings.
Sixth, I am thankful for all of my WONDERFUL friends!!! I'd mention them all, but I don't want to name them without their permission. But seriously, I have freaking wonderful friends.
Seventh, I am so thankful for Debra Katz and everything that she has done for me and all of the wonderful things that she has taught me and is teaching me, along with thousands of others!!
Eight, I am thankful for the wonderful people on Seventhsight.org. I know they don't talk much, but they are seriously such sweethearts!
Ninth, I am thankful for my exes. Without them, I wouldn't know what I don't want in a relationship. Specifically, my most recent ex. Without him, I wouldn't feel beautiful.
Tenth, I am thankful for my spirit guides. Seriously, this should have been at the top of my list, but this list isn't necessarily in order of importance, so its okay. I wouldn't be where I am today without their help and loving guidance.
Eleventh, I am thankful for my teachers for bestowing upon me all of the wonderful things they have taught me. Teachers are SO under-recognized.
Twelfth, I am thankful for the rest of my family. I wouldn't be comfortable being myself if it weren't for all of you.
Thirteenth, I am thankful for social sites, because I would be SO bored at work without them.
Fourteenth, I am thankful for all of the people who make fun of me and made fun of me. You made me stronger than you could ever comprehend.
Fifteenth, I am SO thankful for all of you who read this blog. (all five of you. haha I kid, I kid.) Seriously, thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings.
Sixteenth, I am thankful for snack food (Specifically, cookies!!!). Without it, I would be skinny. haha
Seventeenth, I am thankful for the creator. You have created a marvelous existence.
Eighteenth, I am thankful for my intellect. Seriously, whoever gave me this, you have no idea the wonderful gift you gave me.
Nineteenth, this one is incredibly vain, but I am thankful for my beauty. Both inside and without. I am not the most gorgeous person in the world, but I am FAR from ugly. Baby, I look good. haha Or so I think. haha And I am very thankful for this, because I didn't always believe it.
Twentieth, I am thankful for the future. It makes me happy to know that there is no limit to the possibilities!! :D
I hope you all find something to be thankful for this holiday!!
Lots of love and light!!
Davy
How is everyone this week? Good, I hope.
I won't be able to post over the Thanksgiving Holiday, so I figured I'd go ahead and post my "Thankful" blog.
This post will be about all of the things I'm thankful for in my life. I'll just do 20. :D So, let the gratitude begin!!
First and foremost, I'm thankful for my mother. She is, by far, the most amazing mother in the world, and I would not trade a moment with her for anything in existence.
Second, I am thankful for my loving brother. Without him, I would not know what its like to be so annoyed and so loved by someone at the same time. haha
Third, my nephew, Dominic. Because he is going to be SO spoiled at uncle Davy's!!! :D
Fourth, my grandmother, who, crazy as she may be, is always there for me.
Fifth, my aunt. Not many people have the blessing of being able to grow up with their aunt. Being four years apart, we're almost like siblings.
Sixth, I am thankful for all of my WONDERFUL friends!!! I'd mention them all, but I don't want to name them without their permission. But seriously, I have freaking wonderful friends.
Seventh, I am so thankful for Debra Katz and everything that she has done for me and all of the wonderful things that she has taught me and is teaching me, along with thousands of others!!
Eight, I am thankful for the wonderful people on Seventhsight.org. I know they don't talk much, but they are seriously such sweethearts!
Ninth, I am thankful for my exes. Without them, I wouldn't know what I don't want in a relationship. Specifically, my most recent ex. Without him, I wouldn't feel beautiful.
Tenth, I am thankful for my spirit guides. Seriously, this should have been at the top of my list, but this list isn't necessarily in order of importance, so its okay. I wouldn't be where I am today without their help and loving guidance.
Eleventh, I am thankful for my teachers for bestowing upon me all of the wonderful things they have taught me. Teachers are SO under-recognized.
Twelfth, I am thankful for the rest of my family. I wouldn't be comfortable being myself if it weren't for all of you.
Thirteenth, I am thankful for social sites, because I would be SO bored at work without them.
Fourteenth, I am thankful for all of the people who make fun of me and made fun of me. You made me stronger than you could ever comprehend.
Fifteenth, I am SO thankful for all of you who read this blog. (all five of you. haha I kid, I kid.) Seriously, thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings.
Sixteenth, I am thankful for snack food (Specifically, cookies!!!). Without it, I would be skinny. haha
Seventeenth, I am thankful for the creator. You have created a marvelous existence.
Eighteenth, I am thankful for my intellect. Seriously, whoever gave me this, you have no idea the wonderful gift you gave me.
Nineteenth, this one is incredibly vain, but I am thankful for my beauty. Both inside and without. I am not the most gorgeous person in the world, but I am FAR from ugly. Baby, I look good. haha Or so I think. haha And I am very thankful for this, because I didn't always believe it.
Twentieth, I am thankful for the future. It makes me happy to know that there is no limit to the possibilities!! :D
I hope you all find something to be thankful for this holiday!!
Lots of love and light!!
Davy
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Date. Today. SO EXCITED!!!!
Hey there Life Charmers!!
Well, before I get into my excitement, I wanted to kind of explain why I changed my little greeting.
But, first, have a cookie! :D
Was it good? Well, awesome! :))
Okay, now, lol. So I was saying "Charming Lifers" because I also work on the site seventhsight.org and that's the say I greet the members! Seventhsighters! So, I was like, yeah, I'll just add an -er and be awesome. But, it felt like it was missing something. Like, although so far most of my posts have been just about my random day to day life and what's on my mind (like this one will be), I intend to post lots of helpful things to any psychics or witches or anyone out there who wants to learn whatever they can! Or, if you think we're all devil worshippers, well... Sorry, but I don't subscribe to your religious views. I prefer to rejoice at the thought of my deity, not fear and doubt every action for the thought that I'm going to burn eternally. Sorry. And, if I will, well, I'll have MARSHMALLOWS!!!! YAY!!
Okay, anyway, so my point is that, by calling you Life Charmers, I'm emphasizing that you have the ability to charm your own life and make it whatever you want. Isn't that fantastic?! I thought so, too. In fact, I'm so proud of myself, I'll have a cookie.
*NOMZ*
Okay, I'm back! :D
So, about my date tonight.
I'm super excited! You guys remember I mentioned Fox? Well, tonight is our date night. We're gonna hang out and eat and watch movies and just have a good time. And I'm super excited. Like, SUPER EXCITED, as I'm sure all of my Facebook friends know by now. lol Poor people, reading my giddy statuses. *sigh*
Anyway! I don't know what we'll watch, I don't know what we'll eat, but I do know there will be couch snugglez!!!! :D :D :D
Okay, I could go on, but I won't bore you guys. The two or three of you that happen upon my page occasionally. haha
I'm just excited cuz I like this guy. I think I like him a lot. Annnnndddd, maybe, possibly, I think he likes me too. D: I know! Something has to be wrong with his brain, right? But, I haven't discovered anything yet, so pray for me! (To whomever you pray to!)
But, in all seriousness, I am very appreciative to those of you who check out my blog. Even if only for a second. It really means a lot to me, and I hope you don't think I'm completely insane. Ha.
Until next time,
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Well, before I get into my excitement, I wanted to kind of explain why I changed my little greeting.
But, first, have a cookie! :D
Was it good? Well, awesome! :))
Okay, now, lol. So I was saying "Charming Lifers" because I also work on the site seventhsight.org and that's the say I greet the members! Seventhsighters! So, I was like, yeah, I'll just add an -er and be awesome. But, it felt like it was missing something. Like, although so far most of my posts have been just about my random day to day life and what's on my mind (like this one will be), I intend to post lots of helpful things to any psychics or witches or anyone out there who wants to learn whatever they can! Or, if you think we're all devil worshippers, well... Sorry, but I don't subscribe to your religious views. I prefer to rejoice at the thought of my deity, not fear and doubt every action for the thought that I'm going to burn eternally. Sorry. And, if I will, well, I'll have MARSHMALLOWS!!!! YAY!!
Okay, anyway, so my point is that, by calling you Life Charmers, I'm emphasizing that you have the ability to charm your own life and make it whatever you want. Isn't that fantastic?! I thought so, too. In fact, I'm so proud of myself, I'll have a cookie.
*NOMZ*
Okay, I'm back! :D
So, about my date tonight.
I'm super excited! You guys remember I mentioned Fox? Well, tonight is our date night. We're gonna hang out and eat and watch movies and just have a good time. And I'm super excited. Like, SUPER EXCITED, as I'm sure all of my Facebook friends know by now. lol Poor people, reading my giddy statuses. *sigh*
Anyway! I don't know what we'll watch, I don't know what we'll eat, but I do know there will be couch snugglez!!!! :D :D :D
Okay, I could go on, but I won't bore you guys. The two or three of you that happen upon my page occasionally. haha
I'm just excited cuz I like this guy. I think I like him a lot. Annnnndddd, maybe, possibly, I think he likes me too. D: I know! Something has to be wrong with his brain, right? But, I haven't discovered anything yet, so pray for me! (To whomever you pray to!)
But, in all seriousness, I am very appreciative to those of you who check out my blog. Even if only for a second. It really means a lot to me, and I hope you don't think I'm completely insane. Ha.
Until next time,
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Pretty Pictures!!!
Good Morning Life Charmers!!
How is everyone this morning? Or night. Or whatever it is when you happen to come across this. :)
I was searching for pictures that were appropriate for psychic development, and I found these lovely images that I would like to share with you all. I do not know the original sources, but if you google "Psychic Abilities," you will find these in the image results. :)
My favorite is the winged elf. :))
On a different topic, things are going well with my new guy friend. :)) We'll call him Fox. :D
We have lots in common and are both incredibly attracted to each other. It was really sweet, he asked me what kind of wedding I want when I get married, and our ideal weddings were complete opposites, but he said his version could be for the reception and mine the wedding. :)) I know, its corny that this made me happy, but it did.
We play the question game when we text and I was looking for more questions online because I've run out. Well, fair warning, the ones on the internet suck. A LOT. I'll have to make a new list. And make a post about it. :D
Anyway, I hope everyone is having a fabulous week!!!
Davy
How is everyone this morning? Or night. Or whatever it is when you happen to come across this. :)
I was searching for pictures that were appropriate for psychic development, and I found these lovely images that I would like to share with you all. I do not know the original sources, but if you google "Psychic Abilities," you will find these in the image results. :)
On a different topic, things are going well with my new guy friend. :)) We'll call him Fox. :D
We have lots in common and are both incredibly attracted to each other. It was really sweet, he asked me what kind of wedding I want when I get married, and our ideal weddings were complete opposites, but he said his version could be for the reception and mine the wedding. :)) I know, its corny that this made me happy, but it did.
We play the question game when we text and I was looking for more questions online because I've run out. Well, fair warning, the ones on the internet suck. A LOT. I'll have to make a new list. And make a post about it. :D
Anyway, I hope everyone is having a fabulous week!!!
Davy
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Dating! -- It's Important!
Happy Sunday Life Charmers!!
How has everyone's weekend been? Mine was over yesterday, so it was incredibly short. :/
I wanted to post today about dating. Why? Cuz that's what I've been doing of course! haha
Its been almost three months since my breakup with my four year relationship-ex. And, to be honest, I do think about him about once a day. Granted, I don't think about him in the way he'd like for me to, but I do think about him. I think about all of the things that I wish I'd done differently. I wonder, if I'd have respected myself earlier, would have still have been together for four years? I think, maybe if I'd have shoved his head up his butt he may have seen how big of an a$$hole he really was. Jk, I kid...mostly. But seriously, I'm single, yes. I sleep alone, yes. I don't have someone to say "I love you" every two seconds, no. But, I do have a world full of potential guys who may or may not turn out to be the love of my life.
And at the moment, you ask? At the moment I'm holding down a full time job, going to school full time, maintaining a 3.7 GPA, and I have the affections of many people (both romantic and non).
For example, recently I had my date with the guy that gave me roses. That was very nice and possibly will happen again. :))
And now I am talking to a sweetheart who very well may turn out to be more than just a pleasant friendship. :D
He's very kind, a sweetheart, doesn't mind me being weird, actually finds my psychic stuff interesting (which is incredibly rare in the south. ha), and is overall just a great guy. We have a lot in common, and we both value similar things, which is nice.
But, I didn't decide to make this post to brag about my sweet guy. No, I made this post to talk about the importance of dating.
Everyone wants love, but nobody wants to work for it. You won't always luck up and find your soulmate in a couple tries. Heck, you may never find your soul mate. I know, I know, that's depressing, but seriously, they may not even be on Earth this lifetime and are probably patiently waiting for you to cross over so you two can be together again.
I see people complaining all the time about how they want a good relationship, but they continue to fall for the same people because they find them "hot." Honey, grow up. First of all, half of them don't even know who they are yet, so how in the hell are their partners supposed to be suited for them? Sure, they fit now, but what about four years down the road when you realize you are a completely different person and can't stand the person you're with? What? That happens! I'm proof! haha
Anyway, but seriously, get to know yourself first. Date, have fun, go to movies and out to dinner.
IMPORTANT!!! Just because he pays for a movie ticket or a meal doesn't mean he deserves anything more than a coy smile and batted eyelashes. Come on people, have some self respect.
Sorry, little rant there.
Anywho! But seriously, dating is important. Not only do you get the experience of having fun in a healthy way, but you get to figure out what types of guys/girls you actually like, and figure out tell-tale signs that someone is NOT for you. Its a win/win!
For example, I've learned that I love a guy who can make me laugh, and I don't like guys who want to go out the whole date. If a guy would rather snuggle on a couch and watch a movie than go out to the movies, I'm good. But, if he tries sticking his hands down my pants or raping me during a commercial break, well. Not my fault if he loses an appendage. O:-)
But, I've learned how to tell if they'll do that, too, so I'm good.
Also, if a guy or girl sends you dirty text messages and dirty pics when you've only been talking for less than a week, don't think you're the only one they're doing that with, and PLEASE for God's sake, don't fall in love with them if they are sexy. Yes, they are sexy, yes, you can enjoy that sexiness, but that will go away, and then you'll be stuck with a narcissistic toad. Just saying...
Anyway, I hope you all have a fabulous week!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
How has everyone's weekend been? Mine was over yesterday, so it was incredibly short. :/
I wanted to post today about dating. Why? Cuz that's what I've been doing of course! haha
Its been almost three months since my breakup with my four year relationship-ex. And, to be honest, I do think about him about once a day. Granted, I don't think about him in the way he'd like for me to, but I do think about him. I think about all of the things that I wish I'd done differently. I wonder, if I'd have respected myself earlier, would have still have been together for four years? I think, maybe if I'd have shoved his head up his butt he may have seen how big of an a$$hole he really was. Jk, I kid...mostly. But seriously, I'm single, yes. I sleep alone, yes. I don't have someone to say "I love you" every two seconds, no. But, I do have a world full of potential guys who may or may not turn out to be the love of my life.
And at the moment, you ask? At the moment I'm holding down a full time job, going to school full time, maintaining a 3.7 GPA, and I have the affections of many people (both romantic and non).
For example, recently I had my date with the guy that gave me roses. That was very nice and possibly will happen again. :))
And now I am talking to a sweetheart who very well may turn out to be more than just a pleasant friendship. :D
He's very kind, a sweetheart, doesn't mind me being weird, actually finds my psychic stuff interesting (which is incredibly rare in the south. ha), and is overall just a great guy. We have a lot in common, and we both value similar things, which is nice.
But, I didn't decide to make this post to brag about my sweet guy. No, I made this post to talk about the importance of dating.
Everyone wants love, but nobody wants to work for it. You won't always luck up and find your soulmate in a couple tries. Heck, you may never find your soul mate. I know, I know, that's depressing, but seriously, they may not even be on Earth this lifetime and are probably patiently waiting for you to cross over so you two can be together again.
I see people complaining all the time about how they want a good relationship, but they continue to fall for the same people because they find them "hot." Honey, grow up. First of all, half of them don't even know who they are yet, so how in the hell are their partners supposed to be suited for them? Sure, they fit now, but what about four years down the road when you realize you are a completely different person and can't stand the person you're with? What? That happens! I'm proof! haha
Anyway, but seriously, get to know yourself first. Date, have fun, go to movies and out to dinner.
IMPORTANT!!! Just because he pays for a movie ticket or a meal doesn't mean he deserves anything more than a coy smile and batted eyelashes. Come on people, have some self respect.
Sorry, little rant there.
Anywho! But seriously, dating is important. Not only do you get the experience of having fun in a healthy way, but you get to figure out what types of guys/girls you actually like, and figure out tell-tale signs that someone is NOT for you. Its a win/win!
For example, I've learned that I love a guy who can make me laugh, and I don't like guys who want to go out the whole date. If a guy would rather snuggle on a couch and watch a movie than go out to the movies, I'm good. But, if he tries sticking his hands down my pants or raping me during a commercial break, well. Not my fault if he loses an appendage. O:-)
But, I've learned how to tell if they'll do that, too, so I'm good.
Also, if a guy or girl sends you dirty text messages and dirty pics when you've only been talking for less than a week, don't think you're the only one they're doing that with, and PLEASE for God's sake, don't fall in love with them if they are sexy. Yes, they are sexy, yes, you can enjoy that sexiness, but that will go away, and then you'll be stuck with a narcissistic toad. Just saying...
Anyway, I hope you all have a fabulous week!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Monday, November 5, 2012
Happy Monday
Happy Monday Life Charmers!!!
That's right, I changed your name. Muahahaha!!! .... O.O
Sooo, how is everyone? Did ya have a good weekend? I did. :))
I went on a daaaatte! *sings badly*
Speaking of my singing...Its awful. Like, so awful its epic. People would pay to hear me sing, just so that they had proof that singing could be that bad. LOL
Anywayyyyz, back to my weekend. :)
For the first time since I started my job in January, I had Friday and Saturday night off. So, of course, I did what any college student who never has time to study does. I went to the movies! hahaha *poke* you silly, thought I was gonna say study. tehe
Friday night I had a date. :) I was excited. Its been almost three months since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, and there's a guy I've been talking to for a while that I was like, ya know what, I'm free friday, we should go out. And we did. :))
First we went to PF Chang's. That was good. I got the honey battered chicken. I probably sounded like a little kid when I unwrapped my silverwear and was like "OMG, CHOPSTICKS!!" lol. Oh well, didn't scare him away though. :)) Theeennnn, we took his car (well, his mom's car because he likes to drive it rather than his own) and we went to the movies. We saw the new movie Cloud Atlas. It was very good. Very interesting, engaging, and presents many enlightening ideas. Great movie for food for thought. You should watch it. And eat a cookie, because you watched a good movie. Then reward yourself with another cookie. :D (Remember though, sharing is caring. :D)
Theeeennnn, we went to his aunt's house, and I was like OMG this woman is rich. haha Cuz she is. We had to let her dogs out, then we went to his house to let his dog out. He has a BEAUTIFUL English Golden Retriever. So pretty. And fluffy. And big. :) And he thinks he's a lap dog. hahaha
His house also made me go "OHMAGEEZ". See, my family was not homeless poor, but we were moderately poor. My brother and I didn't go without,, but I can remember many nights when we were young that my mom went without so that we could eat. (Best mom ever, btw.) So, you'll understand when I was amazed at the house on the lake with the beautiful view and the two story gorgeous house, designed and built by his parents. *sigh* I loved it at night, because the moon was high in the sky, shining its silver light across the grass. It was gorgeous. Then, when I got up the next morning at nine, I went out on the patio and meditated for an hour. I was in heaven. :D
All night he was wanting to touch me and hold me and kiss me, but didn't know if he should. (I was "feeling" all night to check and make sure things were going well. Of course, they were. :D Oh the benefits of being a psychic.) But, I don't like to make the first move, so I decided to wait.
I was going to go back to my car, but I was too tired, so I slept over.
And no, no sex, I'm not trash, tyvm. :)
THEN the next day, my bestest friend and I went to the movies and saw Pitch Perfect. It. Was. Amazing. I love that movie! :D
That night my date from the night before and I decided I'd come over again. I washed clothes and we watched Magic Mike. LOVE the sexual attraction of the movie, but it sucked. I'm sorry, but it did. It was awful. Underdeveloped, badly directed, bad quality to emphasize the "reality" of it all, just an overall crappy movie.
The next morning we woke up and watched Prometheus. :) Then I went home. Bless his heart, he was sick this morning. Hope he gets better. :)
The best part about that night (last night, now night before last technically) was when I came in. I walked in the door and he said he had a surprise for me. So, I was like okay, and he covered my eyes. And when we rounded the corner....
That's right, I changed your name. Muahahaha!!! .... O.O
Sooo, how is everyone? Did ya have a good weekend? I did. :))
I went on a daaaatte! *sings badly*
Speaking of my singing...Its awful. Like, so awful its epic. People would pay to hear me sing, just so that they had proof that singing could be that bad. LOL
Anywayyyyz, back to my weekend. :)
For the first time since I started my job in January, I had Friday and Saturday night off. So, of course, I did what any college student who never has time to study does. I went to the movies! hahaha *poke* you silly, thought I was gonna say study. tehe
Friday night I had a date. :) I was excited. Its been almost three months since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, and there's a guy I've been talking to for a while that I was like, ya know what, I'm free friday, we should go out. And we did. :))
First we went to PF Chang's. That was good. I got the honey battered chicken. I probably sounded like a little kid when I unwrapped my silverwear and was like "OMG, CHOPSTICKS!!" lol. Oh well, didn't scare him away though. :)) Theeennnn, we took his car (well, his mom's car because he likes to drive it rather than his own) and we went to the movies. We saw the new movie Cloud Atlas. It was very good. Very interesting, engaging, and presents many enlightening ideas. Great movie for food for thought. You should watch it. And eat a cookie, because you watched a good movie. Then reward yourself with another cookie. :D (Remember though, sharing is caring. :D)
Theeeennnn, we went to his aunt's house, and I was like OMG this woman is rich. haha Cuz she is. We had to let her dogs out, then we went to his house to let his dog out. He has a BEAUTIFUL English Golden Retriever. So pretty. And fluffy. And big. :) And he thinks he's a lap dog. hahaha
His house also made me go "OHMAGEEZ". See, my family was not homeless poor, but we were moderately poor. My brother and I didn't go without,, but I can remember many nights when we were young that my mom went without so that we could eat. (Best mom ever, btw.) So, you'll understand when I was amazed at the house on the lake with the beautiful view and the two story gorgeous house, designed and built by his parents. *sigh* I loved it at night, because the moon was high in the sky, shining its silver light across the grass. It was gorgeous. Then, when I got up the next morning at nine, I went out on the patio and meditated for an hour. I was in heaven. :D
All night he was wanting to touch me and hold me and kiss me, but didn't know if he should. (I was "feeling" all night to check and make sure things were going well. Of course, they were. :D Oh the benefits of being a psychic.) But, I don't like to make the first move, so I decided to wait.
I was going to go back to my car, but I was too tired, so I slept over.
And no, no sex, I'm not trash, tyvm. :)
THEN the next day, my bestest friend and I went to the movies and saw Pitch Perfect. It. Was. Amazing. I love that movie! :D
That night my date from the night before and I decided I'd come over again. I washed clothes and we watched Magic Mike. LOVE the sexual attraction of the movie, but it sucked. I'm sorry, but it did. It was awful. Underdeveloped, badly directed, bad quality to emphasize the "reality" of it all, just an overall crappy movie.
The next morning we woke up and watched Prometheus. :) Then I went home. Bless his heart, he was sick this morning. Hope he gets better. :)
The best part about that night (last night, now night before last technically) was when I came in. I walked in the door and he said he had a surprise for me. So, I was like okay, and he covered my eyes. And when we rounded the corner....
These beautiful flowers were waiting for me. :D
I was so touched. He thought it was corny, but I was incredibly humbled. No one has gotten me flowers before. It made me want to cry. :)) I know, I'm a sap, get over it.
The only thing I worry about is that he doesn't know I'm psychic. And, if he does, because we are FB friends, and thinks its weird, I don't know how to react. Like, I like him, and he is incredibly sweet. But, Idk. Not many people think much of me when I tell them I'm psychic, ya know?
Anyway, so yeah, that was my weekend. :D
Hope yours went wonderfully!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Friday, November 2, 2012
Precognition
Hello Charming Lifers!!!
How is everyone this day after Dia de los Muertos?
How was your Halloween/Samhain?
Any ghosts pay a visit?
Well today/tonight I wanted to post about a topic that came up in my advanced psychic development class. We were assigned it for homework last week, and I wanted to share with you all both the exercise and the results. :))
So, the exercise itself has to do with just relaxing and allowing yourself to use your precognitive abilities.
For those of you who don't know what precognition is, it is the ability to know the future. Also known as future sight or second sight, precognition is the psychic sense of gaining information that one has no way of gaining or deducing by any "natural" means. Pre meaning before, and cognitio being the latin word for acquiring knowledge, precognition is a very useful ability, as I'm sure you can imagine. And, the more you use it, the more frequently it occurs.
So, the exercise is pretty simple. Mainly, you just set your intention to receive precognitive information about the next few minutes. So, like sitting in class, or at work, or just walking around a store or the mall or something. Heck, even playing around on the internet or on facebook. Just close your eyes for a moment and say to yourself "I would like to receive psychic information about the next few minutes." And make sure that you're open to it. If you don't think you will receive anything, very simply put, you won't. Be open to anything that comes in, and make note of any information you receive. I'll explain what happens, that way you'll have an outline of the basic experience.
I have two to list. These were two of my experiences with this exercise.
The first I did while driving, which I don't advise. I didn't close my eyes, but I meditate enough to be able to kind of put myself on autopilot for a few moments while I go within. (what we call "going within" is when you pull your focus to inside of yourself)
So, I make this basic trip every now and then, and have been for about four years. Its a two and a half hours, and right on the two hour mark there is a gas station in a town, Louisville. So, I stop to get gas at the gas station every trip. Anyway, so I know Louisville is coming up, and the night before we were assigned the precognitive homework,, so I figure I'll give it a shot. This experience was very directed, which I don't advise for your first time because if you don't practice your psychic abilities often, it may not work well and you'll be discouraged and won't want to try it again. I much advise an experience like the next one. Anyway, so I know I'll be getting gas soon, so I ask "What gas pump will I get gas at?" I instantly get the number 6. Well, I figure I'll cheat and pull in there on purpose, then I pretty much put it out of my mind. I thought I remembered relatively where pump 6 is, so when I turn in, I try to park at it. Well, there was someone pulling in on the other side, and I went ahead and let them go and I looked for another open pump. I didn't look at any numbers or anything because I had pretty much forgotten about it by then. Anyway, there was only one pump available, at the opposite end of the parking lot, so I pull in there, get out, and start to head inside to prepay. I remember that I need to know what pump I'm at, and I look up to see a big number 6 on my pump!!! I giggled to myself, "Of course!" and walked inside to pay for my gas.
The next experience I had was even more amazing. I work at a hotel, and I fold receipts for the guests who are due to check out that day. Well, this morning I was folding receipts and when I finished, I had a few minutes to waste until it was time to put them out, so I figured I'd give my precognitive abilities a second shot. I asked for information about what was going to happen in the next few minutes. I got the number 224. So, I went through the receipts and, sure enough, room 224 was checking out today. So, I pulled out the receipt and was going to hold it and try to receive more information, but before I got the chance, a woman stepped out of the elevator and walked towards me. I put the receipt down beside my computer and asked her if I could help her. She said she was checking out, and I asked what room number. "I was in 224," she said. My jaw dropped. I smiled and said "I knew you were coming." (lol that didn't sound creepy at all. haha) She laughed, and I handed her the receipt, then she looked at me and noticed that her receipt was the only one that wasn't in the pile to my right. "You did know, didn't you?!" she asked. We both laughed, and she hightailed it out of the hotel. haha It was pretty frickin awesome! :D
So, yeah! Those were my experiences! Hope you enjoyed, and feel free to comment with your own experiences!!! :D
Lots of love and light!
Davy
How is everyone this day after Dia de los Muertos?
How was your Halloween/Samhain?
Any ghosts pay a visit?
Well today/tonight I wanted to post about a topic that came up in my advanced psychic development class. We were assigned it for homework last week, and I wanted to share with you all both the exercise and the results. :))
So, the exercise itself has to do with just relaxing and allowing yourself to use your precognitive abilities.
For those of you who don't know what precognition is, it is the ability to know the future. Also known as future sight or second sight, precognition is the psychic sense of gaining information that one has no way of gaining or deducing by any "natural" means. Pre meaning before, and cognitio being the latin word for acquiring knowledge, precognition is a very useful ability, as I'm sure you can imagine. And, the more you use it, the more frequently it occurs.
So, the exercise is pretty simple. Mainly, you just set your intention to receive precognitive information about the next few minutes. So, like sitting in class, or at work, or just walking around a store or the mall or something. Heck, even playing around on the internet or on facebook. Just close your eyes for a moment and say to yourself "I would like to receive psychic information about the next few minutes." And make sure that you're open to it. If you don't think you will receive anything, very simply put, you won't. Be open to anything that comes in, and make note of any information you receive. I'll explain what happens, that way you'll have an outline of the basic experience.
I have two to list. These were two of my experiences with this exercise.
The first I did while driving, which I don't advise. I didn't close my eyes, but I meditate enough to be able to kind of put myself on autopilot for a few moments while I go within. (what we call "going within" is when you pull your focus to inside of yourself)
So, I make this basic trip every now and then, and have been for about four years. Its a two and a half hours, and right on the two hour mark there is a gas station in a town, Louisville. So, I stop to get gas at the gas station every trip. Anyway, so I know Louisville is coming up, and the night before we were assigned the precognitive homework,, so I figure I'll give it a shot. This experience was very directed, which I don't advise for your first time because if you don't practice your psychic abilities often, it may not work well and you'll be discouraged and won't want to try it again. I much advise an experience like the next one. Anyway, so I know I'll be getting gas soon, so I ask "What gas pump will I get gas at?" I instantly get the number 6. Well, I figure I'll cheat and pull in there on purpose, then I pretty much put it out of my mind. I thought I remembered relatively where pump 6 is, so when I turn in, I try to park at it. Well, there was someone pulling in on the other side, and I went ahead and let them go and I looked for another open pump. I didn't look at any numbers or anything because I had pretty much forgotten about it by then. Anyway, there was only one pump available, at the opposite end of the parking lot, so I pull in there, get out, and start to head inside to prepay. I remember that I need to know what pump I'm at, and I look up to see a big number 6 on my pump!!! I giggled to myself, "Of course!" and walked inside to pay for my gas.
The next experience I had was even more amazing. I work at a hotel, and I fold receipts for the guests who are due to check out that day. Well, this morning I was folding receipts and when I finished, I had a few minutes to waste until it was time to put them out, so I figured I'd give my precognitive abilities a second shot. I asked for information about what was going to happen in the next few minutes. I got the number 224. So, I went through the receipts and, sure enough, room 224 was checking out today. So, I pulled out the receipt and was going to hold it and try to receive more information, but before I got the chance, a woman stepped out of the elevator and walked towards me. I put the receipt down beside my computer and asked her if I could help her. She said she was checking out, and I asked what room number. "I was in 224," she said. My jaw dropped. I smiled and said "I knew you were coming." (lol that didn't sound creepy at all. haha) She laughed, and I handed her the receipt, then she looked at me and noticed that her receipt was the only one that wasn't in the pile to my right. "You did know, didn't you?!" she asked. We both laughed, and she hightailed it out of the hotel. haha It was pretty frickin awesome! :D
So, yeah! Those were my experiences! Hope you enjoyed, and feel free to comment with your own experiences!!! :D
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Samhain!!!
Happy Halloween Charming Lifers!!!!!
I'm posting some pics from my halloween! :D
First of all, don't pay attention to the bathroom. lol I can only take pictures in the bathroom at work, so that's what ya get. ha Sorry. :D
Okay, so this one was at walmart. I was walking to get nail polish remover and there was this AWFUL smell and I had just texted my friend Nichole that it smelled like someone had straight up sh*t in walmart....then I come upon this.... And she was cleaning up something brown....so i had to take a picture and send it to Nichole.
This is one of my friends and coworkers!! :D
This was the pumpkin we did. With the dragon sitting on the hotel...
The fire....
More fire...
My Halloween outfit! :D I was a punk rocker!!
I look very stoned here.... lol Don't ask why, I just do.
My LOVELY coworker Angela! Such a sweetheart!
Me tryin to look cute...in the bathroom at work....didn't pull it off. ha
Last attempt at cuteness. lol
And these are my pictures!!! YAY!!! Another post is on its way soon!
Happy Trick or Treating Charming Lifers!!!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
I'm posting some pics from my halloween! :D
First of all, don't pay attention to the bathroom. lol I can only take pictures in the bathroom at work, so that's what ya get. ha Sorry. :D
Okay, so this one was at walmart. I was walking to get nail polish remover and there was this AWFUL smell and I had just texted my friend Nichole that it smelled like someone had straight up sh*t in walmart....then I come upon this.... And she was cleaning up something brown....so i had to take a picture and send it to Nichole.
Happy Trick or Treating Charming Lifers!!!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Surprise Readings
Hello again, Charming Lifers!
How is everyone?
Hello?
...........
O.O
Hi!
Okay, sorry, I had a moment. :D
So, I wanted to talk today/tonight about surprise readings. You know, the ones when you're going about your day and someone says "Hey, read me!"--whether you want to or not.
This evening, I had to do a surprise reading. I didn't mind, as it was for someone I like a great deal, and she was nice about it. I felt that she wasn't trying to push anything off on me, I had just piqued her curiosity and she couldn't contain herself anymore. And, when we're friends, that's fine. I'll see what I can get.
HOWEVER, if I don't know you, and you get all skeptical and are like "Read me," I don't like that. I don't like that for many reasons, but mainly because I don't play "Test the Psychic." That's a stupid game and I want it to burn. Burn, I say, BURN!!!!!!
....Okay, I'm better. :)
So, I wanted to talk about why I don't like surprise readings. Its not just because I don't like playing "Test the Psychic," there are actual good reasons why I don't like them. Five, actually. And they go as follows:
1) Accuracy
2) Pressure
3) Secrets
4) Energy
5) Commitment
1) Accuracy
In a Surprise Reading, the reader doesn't have a lot of time to prepare. If I agree to read someone out of the blue, I haven't meditated, I haven't gone into a higher state of awareness, I haven't done anything but make the conscious decision to read. Now, that is enough to tune into information, but it leaves all of my filters on, and does not allow me to receive psychic information in an objective and open manner. Its like trying to see something ten feet away, when its covered in dirt, and there is a thick layer of fog between you and the object, and trying to accurately describe the object. There isn't going to be a lot of luck. Sure, you may be able to see the general outline of it, and maybe even see the color of the object, but you won't be able to accurately see it as you would if it was clean and the environment were clear of fog. (bare with me on the analogy, I'm tired. ha) That's what its like when trying to read without proper grounding and preparation. You can get a few good points, but mostly its like you can't make out what you're getting.
2) Pressure
A surprise reading is bad enough, but it causes a lot more pressure than a usual reading. There are so many things that could go wrong with it, but as if that isn't enough, you have the pressure to "prove" yourself as a reader and a psychic. So you're more likely than ever to give bad information because you feel pressured to be right.
3) Secrets
This comes up sometimes when the reading is actually very good, but the readee didn't expect it to be. This gets to be a problem, ironically, because they don't actually want anyone knowing things about them. The most skeptical people sometimes have dark secrets that they think are well-hidden. Well, the deepest secrets are usually the first to show up in a reading. And these people get defensive and say that the things being received are completely wrong, or worse, they claim that the psychic is receiving the information by some dark force (satan is the common choice). Sometimes people just say the reading was wrong, which is bad enough. But, if they are in public or if they feel you are judging them, they'll get defensive and that's where the insults come in. Its a messy business sometimes.
4) Energy
This is a common issue no matter how planned the reading is. A lot of times, readers don't watch their boundaries and they begin to run the readee's energy. This results in many bad ways, including but not limited to: tiredness, irritability, sudden depressing feelings, mood swings, etc. When you're focusing on the abrupt reading, its easy to forget to check in with your grounding chord and seperation object to make sure you're doing the reading in a healthy way.
5) Commitment
This is the issue I experienced earlier. This is an issue that is sort of the combination of other issues (energy, pressure and accuracy). This occurs when you feel that you have a commitment to the reading. This could be just because you try to make sure to always do your best, or you still have the readee's energy in your own, and you continue to feel responsible for the reading, or you feel the pressure to be right, so you want to continue the reading to make sure you've covered all your bases, or you just may not feel like you got much right and want to do better. Its so important to set boundaries (one of which is that the reading is OVER when its over) because you could exhaust yourself by continuing the readings you do. Especially Surprise Readings.
Sooooo, I think I covered all the points. :D I did, unfortunately, give in and do an additional reading for my friend for about twenty minutes afterwards because I did not like where I left the information. But, as always, that was my choice, so I was not wrong for it. And if you decide to do the same with every Surprise Reading you're faced with, feel free! Just make sure you're doing it because you want to and not because the other person is rude about it.
Also, always keep in mind that you do not have to do every reading you are asked to do. You are the reader, and YOU are in charge.
Lots of love and light!
Davy
How is everyone?
Hello?
...........
O.O
Hi!
Okay, sorry, I had a moment. :D
So, I wanted to talk today/tonight about surprise readings. You know, the ones when you're going about your day and someone says "Hey, read me!"--whether you want to or not.
This evening, I had to do a surprise reading. I didn't mind, as it was for someone I like a great deal, and she was nice about it. I felt that she wasn't trying to push anything off on me, I had just piqued her curiosity and she couldn't contain herself anymore. And, when we're friends, that's fine. I'll see what I can get.
HOWEVER, if I don't know you, and you get all skeptical and are like "Read me," I don't like that. I don't like that for many reasons, but mainly because I don't play "Test the Psychic." That's a stupid game and I want it to burn. Burn, I say, BURN!!!!!!
....Okay, I'm better. :)
So, I wanted to talk about why I don't like surprise readings. Its not just because I don't like playing "Test the Psychic," there are actual good reasons why I don't like them. Five, actually. And they go as follows:
1) Accuracy
2) Pressure
3) Secrets
4) Energy
5) Commitment
1) Accuracy
In a Surprise Reading, the reader doesn't have a lot of time to prepare. If I agree to read someone out of the blue, I haven't meditated, I haven't gone into a higher state of awareness, I haven't done anything but make the conscious decision to read. Now, that is enough to tune into information, but it leaves all of my filters on, and does not allow me to receive psychic information in an objective and open manner. Its like trying to see something ten feet away, when its covered in dirt, and there is a thick layer of fog between you and the object, and trying to accurately describe the object. There isn't going to be a lot of luck. Sure, you may be able to see the general outline of it, and maybe even see the color of the object, but you won't be able to accurately see it as you would if it was clean and the environment were clear of fog. (bare with me on the analogy, I'm tired. ha) That's what its like when trying to read without proper grounding and preparation. You can get a few good points, but mostly its like you can't make out what you're getting.
2) Pressure
A surprise reading is bad enough, but it causes a lot more pressure than a usual reading. There are so many things that could go wrong with it, but as if that isn't enough, you have the pressure to "prove" yourself as a reader and a psychic. So you're more likely than ever to give bad information because you feel pressured to be right.
3) Secrets
This comes up sometimes when the reading is actually very good, but the readee didn't expect it to be. This gets to be a problem, ironically, because they don't actually want anyone knowing things about them. The most skeptical people sometimes have dark secrets that they think are well-hidden. Well, the deepest secrets are usually the first to show up in a reading. And these people get defensive and say that the things being received are completely wrong, or worse, they claim that the psychic is receiving the information by some dark force (satan is the common choice). Sometimes people just say the reading was wrong, which is bad enough. But, if they are in public or if they feel you are judging them, they'll get defensive and that's where the insults come in. Its a messy business sometimes.
4) Energy
This is a common issue no matter how planned the reading is. A lot of times, readers don't watch their boundaries and they begin to run the readee's energy. This results in many bad ways, including but not limited to: tiredness, irritability, sudden depressing feelings, mood swings, etc. When you're focusing on the abrupt reading, its easy to forget to check in with your grounding chord and seperation object to make sure you're doing the reading in a healthy way.
5) Commitment
This is the issue I experienced earlier. This is an issue that is sort of the combination of other issues (energy, pressure and accuracy). This occurs when you feel that you have a commitment to the reading. This could be just because you try to make sure to always do your best, or you still have the readee's energy in your own, and you continue to feel responsible for the reading, or you feel the pressure to be right, so you want to continue the reading to make sure you've covered all your bases, or you just may not feel like you got much right and want to do better. Its so important to set boundaries (one of which is that the reading is OVER when its over) because you could exhaust yourself by continuing the readings you do. Especially Surprise Readings.
Sooooo, I think I covered all the points. :D I did, unfortunately, give in and do an additional reading for my friend for about twenty minutes afterwards because I did not like where I left the information. But, as always, that was my choice, so I was not wrong for it. And if you decide to do the same with every Surprise Reading you're faced with, feel free! Just make sure you're doing it because you want to and not because the other person is rude about it.
Also, always keep in mind that you do not have to do every reading you are asked to do. You are the reader, and YOU are in charge.
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Being an Empath.
Good morning/evening/afternoon Charming Lifers!
How are you today? Today, for the first time on my blog, I will be talking about a psychically oriented topic. Empathy. I'm a member of a few social websites, and I frequently see people saying that they are an empath. FREQUENTLY. Like, everyone and they're cousin is an empath. And this bothers me, because it simply is not true.
Now, I'm not saying that these people are not empathic. Quite the contrary. We are ALL empathic. We are human beings. We vibrate at a similar frequency. We experience the same emotions and understand the same feelings. We are psychically open beings that receive and interpret the energy around us. Of course we're going to experience and be aware of the emotions of others. And, yes, we will, at times, be psychic sponges. And it will cause many of us to fall into depression, or spend our lives taking responsibility for the feelings, emotions, and actions of others. However, this does not mean that we are empaths. It means that we are human.
There is a lot of blurred meaning behind being an empath. Just experiencing empathic abilities does not make you an empath. Just like experiencing psychic abilities makes you a psychic. We all have the potential to be anything we desire, and by giving ourselves these labels, we very well may achieve these desires. However, being an empath means more than just being empathic. It means having the desire to help others--the desire to assist others in controlling and dealing with their problems and emotions.
Empaths are gifted in these abilities, as well as helping others cope with their emotions. They can feel others' emotions so that they are fully able to understand what the person is going through. The biggest struggle for empaths is discerning their own emotions from those around them. Well, in the beginning. An experienced empath is aware of their own energy and can tell when an emotion is not their own.
Empaths are an open channel for emotion. They are able to experience the emotions of any other person and/or being. But, something that most people aren't aware of is the fact that empaths can also exude emotional energy and direct it. Also, they can shield themselves. We are always in control over ourselves. We are in command of the energy we choose to receive.
For all of you empaths out there, realize this, and take control of your emotions! You are a powerful being, full of wonder! You are extraordinary! Do not allow yourself to become the "sponge" or "garbage pan" for the emotions of others. Use your abilities, do not allow them to use you! (If you would like any help, please feel free to email me! :D Click on my profile and just shoot me an email! )
Anyway, okay, now that I've ranted and given guidance (how's that for a two-sided coin?), I will leave you with this last thought: Whose emotions are YOU funnelling today?
Lots of love!
Davy
How are you today? Today, for the first time on my blog, I will be talking about a psychically oriented topic. Empathy. I'm a member of a few social websites, and I frequently see people saying that they are an empath. FREQUENTLY. Like, everyone and they're cousin is an empath. And this bothers me, because it simply is not true.
Now, I'm not saying that these people are not empathic. Quite the contrary. We are ALL empathic. We are human beings. We vibrate at a similar frequency. We experience the same emotions and understand the same feelings. We are psychically open beings that receive and interpret the energy around us. Of course we're going to experience and be aware of the emotions of others. And, yes, we will, at times, be psychic sponges. And it will cause many of us to fall into depression, or spend our lives taking responsibility for the feelings, emotions, and actions of others. However, this does not mean that we are empaths. It means that we are human.
There is a lot of blurred meaning behind being an empath. Just experiencing empathic abilities does not make you an empath. Just like experiencing psychic abilities makes you a psychic. We all have the potential to be anything we desire, and by giving ourselves these labels, we very well may achieve these desires. However, being an empath means more than just being empathic. It means having the desire to help others--the desire to assist others in controlling and dealing with their problems and emotions.
Empaths are gifted in these abilities, as well as helping others cope with their emotions. They can feel others' emotions so that they are fully able to understand what the person is going through. The biggest struggle for empaths is discerning their own emotions from those around them. Well, in the beginning. An experienced empath is aware of their own energy and can tell when an emotion is not their own.
Empaths are an open channel for emotion. They are able to experience the emotions of any other person and/or being. But, something that most people aren't aware of is the fact that empaths can also exude emotional energy and direct it. Also, they can shield themselves. We are always in control over ourselves. We are in command of the energy we choose to receive.
For all of you empaths out there, realize this, and take control of your emotions! You are a powerful being, full of wonder! You are extraordinary! Do not allow yourself to become the "sponge" or "garbage pan" for the emotions of others. Use your abilities, do not allow them to use you! (If you would like any help, please feel free to email me! :D Click on my profile and just shoot me an email! )
Anyway, okay, now that I've ranted and given guidance (how's that for a two-sided coin?), I will leave you with this last thought: Whose emotions are YOU funnelling today?
Lots of love!
Davy
Monday, October 22, 2012
Marriage: Are You Ready?
Goodmorning World! Well, those of you who have been kind enough to grace my blog with your presence! Have a cookie!
No, seriously, go get a cookie!
You know you want one!
Okay, so today I have a topic that is rather close to my heart at the moment: Marriage.
Last night, I received a call from my younger brother. He is nineteen years old, married, and has a kid. His 18 year old wife has decided that she doesn't want to be with him anymore. Now, this was not a shock to me, because from the beginning I had a feeling that she wouldn't be much more than a blip on the screen. But, then she got pregnant, and I let my hopes cloud my judgment. And, of course, she decided that she was not ready to settle down. Now, of course, this crushed my brother. Like, as far as the relationship, he could care less, because he's begun to see that it wouldn't work out. But, his son is his focus. The six month old baby boy that is going to suffer because his parents made adult decisions as children. And this is what bothers me most.
Now, I'm not one to preach about not having premarital sex, I started having sex at sixteen, but there is a very big difference. I can't get pregnant. No matter how much premarital sex I have, I won't get pregnant. Now, I can get STD's, but that's why I'm careful, and why there is always protection. But, as a straight couple, you have to THINK before you have sex. Even with a condom, there's no guarantee. And I probably shouldn't have started having sex at sixteen, but ya know what, it happened and there's no taking it back.
Anyway, I just think that marriage is something that you should go into with MUCH consideration, and with complete weighing of the consequences. And, like Wanda Sykes says, "marriage should be like the mafia. Once you're in, you're in!" lol As she said, the murder rate would go up, but hey, whatevs. haha
Anyway, my point is that marriage is a major decision. You marry the person that you will want to be with for the rest of your life. Get to know them first! Don't get married after being together for two months or three months or even a year. Spend actual time together, live together first if you'd like. Just make sure that you actually want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Make sure that you actually know this person and really want to be with them. Marriage isn't just another relationship, people! Its a sacred commitment. Whether you're gay, straight, bi, alien, or glittering fairy princess, you have to enter a marriage as an adult. Otherwise you're just wasting your time and the time of the other person. And please, PLEASE, do not have a baby with someone you don't even know. Let's have some class, people. Seriously, I could---Nevermind, I'll make another post about sex later.
Marriage can be a beautiful thing. It is meant to be a partnership with your best friend and lover. It brings two people closer than they could ever imagine being. It is a wonderful and beautiful union that we have learned to disgrace because "everybody's doing it" and its ridiculous.
I don't care how long I have to wait, when I finally decide to get married, I want to spend my life with that person. And it won't always be rainbows and sunshine. (well, we're gay so maybe it will always be rainbows. lol) But, we'll work at it and we'll have a wonderful life together. That is what marriage is about. Its not about the dress or the ring or the honeymoon. Its about two people who love each other so much that they decide to commit themselves to one another for the rest of their lives. Its amazing, its beautiful, and its a serious friggin decision!
Okay, I'll shut up now!
Lots of love!
Davy
No, seriously, go get a cookie!
You know you want one!
Okay, so today I have a topic that is rather close to my heart at the moment: Marriage.
Last night, I received a call from my younger brother. He is nineteen years old, married, and has a kid. His 18 year old wife has decided that she doesn't want to be with him anymore. Now, this was not a shock to me, because from the beginning I had a feeling that she wouldn't be much more than a blip on the screen. But, then she got pregnant, and I let my hopes cloud my judgment. And, of course, she decided that she was not ready to settle down. Now, of course, this crushed my brother. Like, as far as the relationship, he could care less, because he's begun to see that it wouldn't work out. But, his son is his focus. The six month old baby boy that is going to suffer because his parents made adult decisions as children. And this is what bothers me most.
Now, I'm not one to preach about not having premarital sex, I started having sex at sixteen, but there is a very big difference. I can't get pregnant. No matter how much premarital sex I have, I won't get pregnant. Now, I can get STD's, but that's why I'm careful, and why there is always protection. But, as a straight couple, you have to THINK before you have sex. Even with a condom, there's no guarantee. And I probably shouldn't have started having sex at sixteen, but ya know what, it happened and there's no taking it back.
Anyway, I just think that marriage is something that you should go into with MUCH consideration, and with complete weighing of the consequences. And, like Wanda Sykes says, "marriage should be like the mafia. Once you're in, you're in!" lol As she said, the murder rate would go up, but hey, whatevs. haha
Anyway, my point is that marriage is a major decision. You marry the person that you will want to be with for the rest of your life. Get to know them first! Don't get married after being together for two months or three months or even a year. Spend actual time together, live together first if you'd like. Just make sure that you actually want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Make sure that you actually know this person and really want to be with them. Marriage isn't just another relationship, people! Its a sacred commitment. Whether you're gay, straight, bi, alien, or glittering fairy princess, you have to enter a marriage as an adult. Otherwise you're just wasting your time and the time of the other person. And please, PLEASE, do not have a baby with someone you don't even know. Let's have some class, people. Seriously, I could---Nevermind, I'll make another post about sex later.
Marriage can be a beautiful thing. It is meant to be a partnership with your best friend and lover. It brings two people closer than they could ever imagine being. It is a wonderful and beautiful union that we have learned to disgrace because "everybody's doing it" and its ridiculous.
I don't care how long I have to wait, when I finally decide to get married, I want to spend my life with that person. And it won't always be rainbows and sunshine. (well, we're gay so maybe it will always be rainbows. lol) But, we'll work at it and we'll have a wonderful life together. That is what marriage is about. Its not about the dress or the ring or the honeymoon. Its about two people who love each other so much that they decide to commit themselves to one another for the rest of their lives. Its amazing, its beautiful, and its a serious friggin decision!
Okay, I'll shut up now!
Lots of love!
Davy
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Relationships and Breakups
Hello all!
Sooo, for my first real blog topic, I wanted to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while now. Relationships. And, an even better side to that: breakups.
So, there are SO many people today who think that they have to be in a relationship to be happy. Annnnnd, I kinda want to slap those people in the face with a stinky fish. I'm sorry, too harsh? Okay, a regular smelling fish.
But seriously, I have a major problem with this. Now, I know this sounds SO cliché, but you won't find anyone who can fill that void you feel. This is because you are the only person who can fill it. You know why pretty and happy people have such great relationships? Because they are happy with themselves! If you can function on your own without getting all depressed, and just be happy with your own company, then guess what? Someone will want you! They'll want you because they see that you don't need them, so they'll want to be with you. Now, I know, it takes a second for that to make sense, but honestly, think about it. Take guys for example. They want an independent woman, right? They want someone who can pay her own bills and isn't concerned with him. Want a guy to like you? Act like you don't like him. Now, I know this isn't always the case. There are a lot of guys that want you to want them and to need them, but that's because they feel like they aren't good enough, and they need someone else to make them feel like they are worth something because if someone else needs them then obviously they have something to offer. (try saying that ten times fast. You lose your breath. I know. I tried. lol) But seriously, a healthy individual who is happy with theirself picks a partner based on whether or not they believe that partner can appreciate them as they feel they deserve to be appreciated. So, if you have a low self esteem, then anyone can fill that void. (again, I know. I tried.) But, if you respect yourself and your opinions and your thoughts and you feel that you are an amazing person, then you will only settle for someone who feels that way about you, as well. Granted, there are circumstances where they feel that way about you and, whoops! turns out they're a little crazy. (overly attached girlfriend types) But usually you'll attract people who genuinely appreciate you. I was talking to my roommate the other day (she and her boyfriend are my roommates) and she said something that really made me respect her. She said "I know he could have other girls if he wanted them, and he knows he could. He knows he's attractive, and he's not with me because I'm the only one who will be with him." See, I've been in relationships where I was there just because I was the only one who would be with them. And it was awful. There are reasons why you shouldn't do things like that. I mean, if you genuinely like the person and want to be with them, then have at it. But, generally, you should never do something like that because it isn't your place nor your responsibility to love this person just so that they will be loved. And I know that's harsh and kinda mean, but seriously. There is someone for everyone. They may not be able to find that person when they want them, but eventually they will find them. And if they don't, that's because they aren't meant to. They may have to learn a lesson about being alone, or being able to be alone and be happy. This lifetime may be the lifetime that they have to be alone, and by being with them just so that they aren't alone, you are hindering their personal growth.
Now, when you're in a relationship, there are a few things that I think everyone should have as a standard. First and foremost, does this person actually want to be with you. Are they just with you to be with you, or so that they aren't alone? Seriously, think about it. Do you want someone who has you just to fill a void that you can never fill, or do you want someone who actually wants you? Call me crazy, but I want someone who actually wants to be with me for me, not just because I'm the best choice. Now, I'm far from vain, but I'm not ugly. No, I'll never win any contests for most attractive, but I have a pleasant face, a slim body, and a nice ass. haha But, I feel that I deserve someone who finds me incredibly attractive. And attractive is different from sexy or cute. Attractive is beautiful, attractive is wanting to be in their presence because you just like their personality. Attractive is being nice and cute and funny. I would rather be attractive than sexy any day. Well, I take that back. I'd rather be attractive than hot anyday. Sexy, to me, is similar to attractive, only in an adult fashion. haha Anyway!!! Next! You should be with someone who appreciates you and respects you. Why would you be with someone who puts you down, doesn't notice the awesomeness that is you, and who disrespects you and your feelings? And if you know you love this person, but they don't do these things, talk to them. Make your feelings known. Don't be a baby about it, but approach them in a mature fashion and be like, "Look, these things are bothering me. I would appreciate it if you pay more attention when you say _____, etc." And if they don't change or respect you enough to acknowledge your feelings, kick his/her sorry ass to the curb!! And, I think one of the most important things: Don't force someone to be with you! If they don't want to be with you, don't make them! There is a reason for everything, and you just may find out that they aren't at all what you want. You think you know them, you think you love them, then you finally get them and you're like OMG, they changed! They didn't change, you just finally got to see them! Also, if you force someone to be with you, then there they are in a relationship they don't even want. They will either hurt you, cheat on you, mistreat you, or just be generally unhappy. Now, for all of you Overly Attached Girlfriend Types (henceforth known as OAGT's), there is someone out there who deserves all of the love you can give them. Don't waste it on someone who won't appreciate it.
As for breakups. Have fun! Like, seriously, have a blast. You wanna cry, go ahead. You wanna post millions of songs about how shitty the person is or how they made you feel, feel free! You feel the way you do for a reason, so express those feelings so that you can get them out of your system and move on with your life. And then, move on. Really, the relationship is over. MOVE THE F*(K ON! I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. We had a long and, frankly, not that good of a relationship. There were hard times, and then there were f*(king crazy times. And every now and then we'd have this little sparkle, but by the end of the day it was ruined and we were back to one of us (usually me) being all broken hearted. My new favorite phrase has become "onto the next one." And the next person doesn't have to be another person. It can be you. It can be you flaunting your stuff or feeling attractive or surrounding yourself with friends who appreciate you. It can be hanging out with that best friend who is always there for you and always knows just what to say. Or, have a rebound relationship. Or even better, have rebound sex! (Teenagers, keep it in your pants! Don't listen to that part of the advice about sex, be celebite! lol I don't even know how to spell that word.) Do whatever it is that you need to do, but move on. If they don't want to be with you, don't waste your time trying to force them. You deserve better than that. You deserve someone who will appreciate you. You deserve someone who acknowledges what a beautiful being you are, and who will always want you.
Now, I want to clarify and say that I'm not judging anyone who fits any of the descriptions I have mentioned. I don't blame you, hell, I've been you. But I do want to say that you deserve better. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to have a fulfilling relationship, not a hole-filling relationship.
I hope everyone is having a fantastic week!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Sooo, for my first real blog topic, I wanted to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while now. Relationships. And, an even better side to that: breakups.
So, there are SO many people today who think that they have to be in a relationship to be happy. Annnnnd, I kinda want to slap those people in the face with a stinky fish. I'm sorry, too harsh? Okay, a regular smelling fish.
But seriously, I have a major problem with this. Now, I know this sounds SO cliché, but you won't find anyone who can fill that void you feel. This is because you are the only person who can fill it. You know why pretty and happy people have such great relationships? Because they are happy with themselves! If you can function on your own without getting all depressed, and just be happy with your own company, then guess what? Someone will want you! They'll want you because they see that you don't need them, so they'll want to be with you. Now, I know, it takes a second for that to make sense, but honestly, think about it. Take guys for example. They want an independent woman, right? They want someone who can pay her own bills and isn't concerned with him. Want a guy to like you? Act like you don't like him. Now, I know this isn't always the case. There are a lot of guys that want you to want them and to need them, but that's because they feel like they aren't good enough, and they need someone else to make them feel like they are worth something because if someone else needs them then obviously they have something to offer. (try saying that ten times fast. You lose your breath. I know. I tried. lol) But seriously, a healthy individual who is happy with theirself picks a partner based on whether or not they believe that partner can appreciate them as they feel they deserve to be appreciated. So, if you have a low self esteem, then anyone can fill that void. (again, I know. I tried.) But, if you respect yourself and your opinions and your thoughts and you feel that you are an amazing person, then you will only settle for someone who feels that way about you, as well. Granted, there are circumstances where they feel that way about you and, whoops! turns out they're a little crazy. (overly attached girlfriend types) But usually you'll attract people who genuinely appreciate you. I was talking to my roommate the other day (she and her boyfriend are my roommates) and she said something that really made me respect her. She said "I know he could have other girls if he wanted them, and he knows he could. He knows he's attractive, and he's not with me because I'm the only one who will be with him." See, I've been in relationships where I was there just because I was the only one who would be with them. And it was awful. There are reasons why you shouldn't do things like that. I mean, if you genuinely like the person and want to be with them, then have at it. But, generally, you should never do something like that because it isn't your place nor your responsibility to love this person just so that they will be loved. And I know that's harsh and kinda mean, but seriously. There is someone for everyone. They may not be able to find that person when they want them, but eventually they will find them. And if they don't, that's because they aren't meant to. They may have to learn a lesson about being alone, or being able to be alone and be happy. This lifetime may be the lifetime that they have to be alone, and by being with them just so that they aren't alone, you are hindering their personal growth.
Now, when you're in a relationship, there are a few things that I think everyone should have as a standard. First and foremost, does this person actually want to be with you. Are they just with you to be with you, or so that they aren't alone? Seriously, think about it. Do you want someone who has you just to fill a void that you can never fill, or do you want someone who actually wants you? Call me crazy, but I want someone who actually wants to be with me for me, not just because I'm the best choice. Now, I'm far from vain, but I'm not ugly. No, I'll never win any contests for most attractive, but I have a pleasant face, a slim body, and a nice ass. haha But, I feel that I deserve someone who finds me incredibly attractive. And attractive is different from sexy or cute. Attractive is beautiful, attractive is wanting to be in their presence because you just like their personality. Attractive is being nice and cute and funny. I would rather be attractive than sexy any day. Well, I take that back. I'd rather be attractive than hot anyday. Sexy, to me, is similar to attractive, only in an adult fashion. haha Anyway!!! Next! You should be with someone who appreciates you and respects you. Why would you be with someone who puts you down, doesn't notice the awesomeness that is you, and who disrespects you and your feelings? And if you know you love this person, but they don't do these things, talk to them. Make your feelings known. Don't be a baby about it, but approach them in a mature fashion and be like, "Look, these things are bothering me. I would appreciate it if you pay more attention when you say _____, etc." And if they don't change or respect you enough to acknowledge your feelings, kick his/her sorry ass to the curb!! And, I think one of the most important things: Don't force someone to be with you! If they don't want to be with you, don't make them! There is a reason for everything, and you just may find out that they aren't at all what you want. You think you know them, you think you love them, then you finally get them and you're like OMG, they changed! They didn't change, you just finally got to see them! Also, if you force someone to be with you, then there they are in a relationship they don't even want. They will either hurt you, cheat on you, mistreat you, or just be generally unhappy. Now, for all of you Overly Attached Girlfriend Types (henceforth known as OAGT's), there is someone out there who deserves all of the love you can give them. Don't waste it on someone who won't appreciate it.
As for breakups. Have fun! Like, seriously, have a blast. You wanna cry, go ahead. You wanna post millions of songs about how shitty the person is or how they made you feel, feel free! You feel the way you do for a reason, so express those feelings so that you can get them out of your system and move on with your life. And then, move on. Really, the relationship is over. MOVE THE F*(K ON! I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. We had a long and, frankly, not that good of a relationship. There were hard times, and then there were f*(king crazy times. And every now and then we'd have this little sparkle, but by the end of the day it was ruined and we were back to one of us (usually me) being all broken hearted. My new favorite phrase has become "onto the next one." And the next person doesn't have to be another person. It can be you. It can be you flaunting your stuff or feeling attractive or surrounding yourself with friends who appreciate you. It can be hanging out with that best friend who is always there for you and always knows just what to say. Or, have a rebound relationship. Or even better, have rebound sex! (Teenagers, keep it in your pants! Don't listen to that part of the advice about sex, be celebite! lol I don't even know how to spell that word.) Do whatever it is that you need to do, but move on. If they don't want to be with you, don't waste your time trying to force them. You deserve better than that. You deserve someone who will appreciate you. You deserve someone who acknowledges what a beautiful being you are, and who will always want you.
Now, I want to clarify and say that I'm not judging anyone who fits any of the descriptions I have mentioned. I don't blame you, hell, I've been you. But I do want to say that you deserve better. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to have a fulfilling relationship, not a hole-filling relationship.
I hope everyone is having a fantastic week!
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Introductions Are in Order...
Well Hello World! (or those of you who have stumbled upon my blog by accident!)
Welcome to my little corner of the internet! I hope you like it here! We have cookies! Well, not really, but if you go make cookies, then bring them back, we'll have cookies! Just remember, sharing is caring!
About Me!
I don't even know where to begin talking about myself. I'm not too incredibly interesting... I guess I'll start with my name. My name is Davy Coker. But, you can just call me Davy. I'm twenty years old, until May of next year. I am a full time college student and a full time night auditor at Holiday Inn. :) I am also a clairvoyant and I offer insight to others in areas of their lives that they are unsure of. And, of course, I give myself insight because lord knows I have no idea what's going on with my life half the time! So, basically, I never sleep! I'm a vampire, hear me sparkle! Wait...
Oh, and I'm gay! You'll see blog posts mentioning things about that frequently, so yeah, brace yourself for the cliché and the stereotypical!
About zeh Blogs!
So, you're probably wondering what will be going on in my blogs. Well, if you've made it this far I'm assuming that you've discovered that I'm only a little off my rocker, so there will, of course, be no set topic that all of my blogs will be confined to. Basically, I'll just talk about whatever rock is in my shoe at the moment, or I'll be happy to take requests. Not that I expect them, but, hey, ya gotta be positive! :D
You may get a vid-blog once in a while, but I'm not sure yet. I'll post pictures from time to time, some of them of me, most of them just crap I find funny. :))
I'll talk about class and what goes on in school and the happenings of my super-awesome college life. (just so you know, my life is majorly boring in the party department, so don't expect drunk pictures of me! Well, don't expect them often. lol) Also I'll make lots of posts about psychic things and sometimes Wicca and stuff like that, so if you have a mind as closed as the books in the back of the library, please kindly direct yourself away from this blog. :) Thank you!
Other Random Awesomeness!
As I mentioned before, I'm clairvoyant. I moderate the social site and twitter of Debra Katz, an international author and clairvoyant. If you would like to learn more about Debra, please feel free to browse her site! I'm on there too! *shoves your mouse to link*
Debra Katz
And if you were interested in reading the many blogs I've posted on her social site, here's the link to Seventhsight!
If you have any questions that you would like to ask but don't want to be public, you can email me here @Davy, or follow me on twitter at @Psychic2lyf (but I'm not very active on there. lol), or find me on Facebook. :D
Also, here is a fair warning, I am not afraid of using fowl language. I will not do it unreasonably, but this is my blog and I do reserve the right to toss around the F bomb like a hot potato. If that offends you, my apologies, again, please direct yourself away from this blog. Thank you.
Well peepz, that's it for now! I hope you've enjoyed my little intro! Lots of love to you, and I look forward to long conversations with myself! haha :D
Lots of love and light!
Davy
Welcome to my little corner of the internet! I hope you like it here! We have cookies! Well, not really, but if you go make cookies, then bring them back, we'll have cookies! Just remember, sharing is caring!
About Me!
I don't even know where to begin talking about myself. I'm not too incredibly interesting... I guess I'll start with my name. My name is Davy Coker. But, you can just call me Davy. I'm twenty years old, until May of next year. I am a full time college student and a full time night auditor at Holiday Inn. :) I am also a clairvoyant and I offer insight to others in areas of their lives that they are unsure of. And, of course, I give myself insight because lord knows I have no idea what's going on with my life half the time! So, basically, I never sleep! I'm a vampire, hear me sparkle! Wait...
Oh, and I'm gay! You'll see blog posts mentioning things about that frequently, so yeah, brace yourself for the cliché and the stereotypical!
About zeh Blogs!
So, you're probably wondering what will be going on in my blogs. Well, if you've made it this far I'm assuming that you've discovered that I'm only a little off my rocker, so there will, of course, be no set topic that all of my blogs will be confined to. Basically, I'll just talk about whatever rock is in my shoe at the moment, or I'll be happy to take requests. Not that I expect them, but, hey, ya gotta be positive! :D
You may get a vid-blog once in a while, but I'm not sure yet. I'll post pictures from time to time, some of them of me, most of them just crap I find funny. :))
I'll talk about class and what goes on in school and the happenings of my super-awesome college life. (just so you know, my life is majorly boring in the party department, so don't expect drunk pictures of me! Well, don't expect them often. lol) Also I'll make lots of posts about psychic things and sometimes Wicca and stuff like that, so if you have a mind as closed as the books in the back of the library, please kindly direct yourself away from this blog. :) Thank you!
Other Random Awesomeness!
As I mentioned before, I'm clairvoyant. I moderate the social site and twitter of Debra Katz, an international author and clairvoyant. If you would like to learn more about Debra, please feel free to browse her site! I'm on there too! *shoves your mouse to link*
Debra Katz
And if you were interested in reading the many blogs I've posted on her social site, here's the link to Seventhsight!
If you have any questions that you would like to ask but don't want to be public, you can email me here @Davy, or follow me on twitter at @Psychic2lyf (but I'm not very active on there. lol), or find me on Facebook. :D
Also, here is a fair warning, I am not afraid of using fowl language. I will not do it unreasonably, but this is my blog and I do reserve the right to toss around the F bomb like a hot potato. If that offends you, my apologies, again, please direct yourself away from this blog. Thank you.
Well peepz, that's it for now! I hope you've enjoyed my little intro! Lots of love to you, and I look forward to long conversations with myself! haha :D
Lots of love and light!
Davy
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